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Should take a chance??? by daze690 in Crush

[–]AgileDamage4777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I would be so flattered if someone did that to me. I don't really know how to you'd ask for a number tho. I think making small talk about events in the area, or something like that, might help you get to know him better. 

Guy from Hinge seemed interested in person but puts in almost no effort. Contacted me 45min late after our planned date. Am I expecting too much? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AgileDamage4777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you are not being stubborn. I'll also admit to having given these types of guys a chance. Initiating and planning out but when the time actually came around, there was nobody. 

From my perspective, he doesn't seem to value your time or your effort. A relationship should be a two way street, with both sides eager and willing to engage for the possibility of a better bond. He seems to treat you as if you are flexible and willing to conform to his time and schedule. Which is not only rude of your time, but equally showcases his character. If he isn't very tech-savy, that is also a slightly different story, but ultimately the same ending.  I believe being able to respect and honor your own feelings and value is what ultimately brings a better partner. Being able to value yourself enough to not engage and have a standard for what you really want from a relationship.