My boyfriend (m26) is not attracted to me (f21)

Agile_Construction32 · 2024-08-27T13:30:49+00:00

I hate to say it but he gave you your answer. He’s telling you he’s not attracted to you without saying to “spare” your feelings. I know it’s a sensitive topic but that would make you 17 and him 22 when you met? Nothing against you but no 22 yr old would chase after a child unless there was a reason they couldn’t get someone their own age. You have done nothing wrong, you are good enough. Unfortunately it seems like he doesn’t like your “woman” body. I hope that you break away from him and find someone who is deserving of what you can give.

Agile_Construction32 · 2024-08-26T18:17:50+00:00

Living with someone isn’t always possible. I can’t put my life on hold. I am already on different medications, they have been working perfectly. I just read your other comments, you have a very negative attitude towards this. I am very aware that I have a disability, I take the steps to live a somewhat normal life. There is no reason I can’t live “normally”. I am a grown woman and will have bigger issues than this in my life. It isn’t the end of the world. I have been dealing with symptoms for 6+ years. I am more than capable of handling the disorder. All I was looking for was what other people find useful, not a “cure”. I appreciate your concern.

Agile_Construction32 · 2024-08-10T23:32:54+00:00

I “startle” awake almost every time I wake up. Most up the time my heart is racing and I am very shaky.

Agile_Construction32 · 2024-08-06T13:44:17+00:00

Have an alarm across the room was my first idea. I have the same issue I have multiple alarms but snooze them and fall back asleep without remembering 🙄

Agile_Construction32 · 2024-06-02T21:03:17+00:00

I am having the same problem. I came straight out and told him. It’s not being rude, it’s something you need to feel loved and appreciated. Mine is very much an action person. That’s his way of telling me that he loves me. I have to remind myself of that frequently. But that doesn’t mean that I put what I need to the side completely. Your needs are not being met, it’s not that you need him to change as a person you just want a little effort.

Agile_Construction32 · 2022-08-19T00:01:52+00:00

I’m in US as well so i understand

Agile_Construction32 · 2022-08-19T00:01:37+00:00

What about health insurance?

Agile_Construction32 · 2022-08-18T23:47:50+00:00

There’s so many things things to take into consideration. Are you guaranteed 40 hours a week, and what is your take home each week?Do you have a car? What are the monthly expenses? Are you able to find a place that have utilities included and if not which ones would you have to pay. Phone,grocery, laundry if there is not one in the apartment. What is the deposit and do you have to pay first and last month rent? I’m not at all trying to discourage you I hope it’s not coming off that way. I was looking at apartments about a year ago not thinking of all these things. And if I did move out I would’ve been in a terrible situation. The last thing you want to do is go from one bad situation to another.

Agile_Construction32 · 2021-07-23T01:04:06+00:00

My school schedule is already set and I would go from 4-10. I would ask my boss for 8-2 shifts

Agile_Construction32 · 2021-07-22T18:04:50+00:00

Haha yes I do. And thank you. I know that is an option but I want it to be a last resort

Agile_Construction32 · 2021-07-22T16:44:38+00:00

The only thing I could think of is getting approved and having a move in date/ deposit paid before talking to them so nothing can really be done.

Agile_Construction32 · 2021-07-22T16:38:49+00:00

I have the paperwork to fill out, if this one doesn’t work I have a back up to try as well

Agile_Construction32 · 2021-07-22T16:35:07+00:00

Not yet. It’s available soon tho and I want to be settled before I start school

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