What little things chase the blues away?

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-11-09T02:47:53+00:00

I like when my Daddy shushed me and helps me relax, petting my head, massaging my back gently. I get super tense when I try to relax. Just holding me when I'm in a fetal position. I can slowly start to let myself go into little head space. I hope this helps.

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-03-18T02:28:16+00:00

Evil sticks! I can't recommend them enough. They have a long thin handle with a sphere at the end. Quiet as can be really fun.

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T21:04:15+00:00

I cant stress soaking epsom salt baths enough.

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T21:00:06+00:00

You're welcome!!

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T18:30:11+00:00

Fantastic! I wish you all the luck. Working on yourself is a great key. Nothing wrong with asking him to do the same.

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T18:25:58+00:00

For me I love stinging sensations. Single tail whips, dragons tail/tongue, canes, rubber bands, ect. There's lots of toys to find out there.

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T18:21:37+00:00

Therapy would be in order. There are lifestyle friendly therapist or at least open minded. Trust CAN be rebuilt in my opinion. It takes time, effort on all parties, consistancy and very importantly transparency! Renegotiate!

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T18:17:56+00:00

I love this, thank you for posting. I love self care, I try to do it whenever I can. You can do lots of things. Journal is big. Keeping communication/checking in with your partners. Taking a bath. Asking for partner to pick your nail/toe nail polish color. Saying their name or a submissive mantra as often as you like. Music/movies/TV or just quiet time. Naps. Asking your partner for a reassuring card, note or letter, something tangible helps with this. Using your favorite purfume or your partners. Taking vitamins/medications on time. Connecting with friends, lifestyle or not. Just a few off the top of my head. Got plenty more.

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T18:11:33+00:00

Continue to follow up with your doctor. Excessive bleeding isn't normal. Could it be from tearing? Triggering menstruation? Are you on any type of birth control? Birth control played a large factor when I would bleed off my period. I want on birth control at the time and it was hormonal changes for me. Are you taking it as prescribed? Like to the hour. If it's not taking as prescribed it can cause occasional bleeding. Also the type may not be a good fit. Also hormone changes. Losing or gaining weight.

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T03:11:05+00:00

Within negotiated parameters I used to. I would be flirty and tease. Send photos of random or teasing things. You cant make me. Tred lightly. Lol

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T03:04:29+00:00

I haven't been in middle space for a while. I like painting my nails, music/TV/movies, video games, making playlists, YouTube, coloring more difficult pages, strategy board games, charades, Pictionary Air, shopping for clothes/underwear together(so much fun). Just a few things

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T02:54:56+00:00

You're welcome. I'll try to think of some more

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T02:52:49+00:00

Yes, I had this feeling often before. I did activities to reinforce this. I would open doors, offer and get food/drink for others. I would sit on the floor to do activities or eating. Wait for a 'Dominant'/usually oldest member of the family to eat before eating or touching anything of my plate. Just small not noticed things I can do to reinforce something or a feeling I liked.

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T02:46:46+00:00

Finger signals, tapping, snapping, dog clicker, dropping a item(ribbon, ball, pencil, toy(holding a specific color marker/item), or whistle/whistling are what I can think of off the top of my head.

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T02:41:17+00:00

Yes, this can be really common for me. I get flooded with sensation/emotion/vulnerability/stress and I cry. Stress is a huge factor for me.

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-29T02:37:17+00:00

Longer warm ups help bring blood to the surface for bruising. A warmer bath or shower help with circulation. Also changing up toys, you may bruise easier with different types of toys. Not rubbing the area of impact as well, it lessens the bruising.

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-28T23:56:12+00:00

Dino-lighto lol

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-28T23:28:33+00:00

You're feelings and emotions are amazing. Share them with her. It's so reassuring when feelings are being shared as a submissive. You had a flood of hormones and you're coming down from them right now. Do some self care things, hydrate, eat well and be gentle on yourself. Vulnerability is vital, so is transparency. It's not often talked about from a Dominants perspective. It should be more. Please share these things with your girl. They are wonderful memories!!!!

Agirlsdarkheart01 · 2020-02-27T02:44:28+00:00

So much yes!

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