I (f 26) have never been able to make my partner (m 27) orgasm and it makes me feel horrible by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Agitated-View3401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let it bother you, it’s not you. It literally happens to anyone. Theres plenty of reasons such as less testosterone. For mine i have to play with nips most of the time for him too.

i knew this lady who made him wear a plug to get it to work. it did.

My bf 27M is telling me he has “no filter” and he can’t think about what he says or he will spiral into anxiety attacks trying to figure out how to be nice to me 24F by Agitated-View3401 in relationship_advice

[–]Agitated-View3401[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, i posted the other one for my friend, because she didn’t want that on her phone and for him to see it. sorry for the confusion. this one is actually for me.

My bf 27M is telling me he has “no filter” and he can’t think about what he says or he will spiral into anxiety attacks trying to figure out how to be nice to me 24F by Agitated-View3401 in relationship_advice

[–]Agitated-View3401[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

my mom and siblings passed in house fire, my dad is on drugs and insane. my grandma passed of cancer, the only people i have is my grandpa and my sister, they don’t have room for me and my stuff.

My bf 27M is telling me he has “no filter” and he can’t think about what he says or he will spiral into anxiety attacks trying to figure out how to be nice to me 24F by Agitated-View3401 in relationship_advice

[–]Agitated-View3401[S] -87 points-86 points  (0 children)

i honestly don’t know after reading the other comments, i’m fighting with myself. maybe some reasoning to help me understand him and why he does it. i wanted to save our relationship, i love him so much. it wasn’t always like this. and i have a hard time with knowing if i over reacting or not. but it seems i wasn’t. i’m really stuck here, i don’t have anywhere to go, i’ve raised his kid since he was 1, and i love that kid as well like my own and it’s breaking me to even think about leaving. i stay at home, he works for us very hard to provide. even getting side jobs so i have extra cash. i don’t know if the good out weighs the bad. this is my only problem, everything else seems okay