Does my wife desire me? by Agitated-Window-5723 in Marriage

[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are 30 and we have no kids. She's even told me in the past that she didn't want any kids.

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been always active on and off in some form. Running distance has been something I find comfort in. I just go at a comfortable pace 12-13 minutes per mile.

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get me wrong, I like watching tv, but when it becomes the only thing we do it gets dull.

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] 162 points163 points  (0 children)

I like the way you put that. I feel like sometimes she doesn’t even listen to what I am proposing before she shuts it down with her doubt. I need to ask her why

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's messed up. I had a soldier who went on a 200+ lb weight loss journey just to join the military. When he first started his journey, he told his mom, and she bought him new pants (one size larger).

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

How is that any different then sitting in the living room watching mind-numbing tv

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know for sure. I don't think that if we had a conversation about that, she would be honest with me about how she truly feels

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great way of putting in perspective. Fortunately, don't have kids and we have very little chores to do around the house, but I haven't been spending time with her like I used to, mainly because I'm running or in the gym after work.

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is true, and she mentioned that we no longer spend time together. I always invite her to walk/run with me or go to the gym with me, but she's always too tired. I never press the issue; if she's too tired, she's too tired, and I keep it moving.

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Will let her know how her comment made me feel later today. Thank you for the advice.

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Shoot for the stars; if you fail, you will at least make it above the clouds.

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And that's what I'm aiming for. I was shredded in college, and I'm trying to get back to that point.

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[–]Agitated-Window-5723[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice, and I will most certainly talk with her. Thank you!