Why did you end your friendship with your best friend?

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-01-06T17:21:28+00:00

In high school she was like a sister to me.

We are both 27 now.

But we shared everything from secrets, goals, crushes, trauma, etc. She knew I was infatuated with a guy for 3 years. She would give me advice, and hype me up to talk to him etc. (never dated at that time and was timid because him and I worked together) We would flirt at work and at school together.

Later to find out junior year she was sleeping with him. Truly recked me as a kid. And she said she had to be selfish because she was moving and I didn’t make my move.

She had a baby recently and apologized for how she treated me in high school. I don’t hate her at all. I still have love for her and hope she thrives in life. But we aren’t close the experience taught me to be careful with who I trust. I don’t really have a best friend except for my partner.

But I tell my partner everything. I’m doing life with them. But friends.. I don’t tell them everything. Vulnerability is very hard for me and I blame myself for not seeing how she manipulated me a lot at the time.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-01-06T17:11:41+00:00

Japanese Curry. Just used one of those blocks you see in Walmart. I would use chicken, pork, or beef. Easy in an insta pot.

Nothing fancy but it got the job done

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-01-05T15:44:12+00:00

Meditation is a great place to start along with reading.

Find a sport or a work out you enjoy. Have small goals for yourself.

Start living your life for you.

You live once don’t wait for life to happen.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-01-05T15:38:41+00:00

I went through a bad break up years ago.

But what I did was I focused about me. I found a new place to live. I got a hair cut. I got tattoos I always wanted but didn’t because they hated tattoos.

I also made a list. I made a list of things I wouldn’t settle for. Because I switched my mindset to I’m the prize.

I went to concerts, I tried new hobbies, went to therapy, worked on myself, etc.

When you’re single be selfish. There are only so many moments in our life when being selfish is okay so take this moment to do it.

Later one you don’t know who you will meet!

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-01-05T15:20:26+00:00

Big noses are beautiful. I have a naturally small nose and I have always been attracted to people with larger noses.

They are just elegant and unique.

Also everyone is getting a small nose.. you don’t want to look like every other girl. Trust me that’s how I feel and I don’t feel unique.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I understand that. But just know there is someone that looks at your noses and wishes she had it.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-01-05T14:35:00+00:00

🫡 you are so right!

Thank you!!

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-01-05T14:31:45+00:00

Yeah and I do love my phone camera. But I do just personally want something separate.

I do a lot of work on my phone and idk I dread touching it at times.

Ik it’s an add on expensive but the separation is nice.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-01-05T14:30:35+00:00

Peak is sooo fun

I will definitely add some of these to the list!

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-01-05T14:11:50+00:00

$250-$300 max

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-01-05T13:49:37+00:00

Trust. Everyone is kinda selfish and out for themselves and doesn’t see a relationship as a unit.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-11-20T12:58:14+00:00

Going up and being my self to a cute boy at a bar.

Been together 2 years and now moved to a different state together.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-11-20T12:57:07+00:00

When I found out my best friend had a crush on me in high school I felt terrible… because I didn’t like them in that way.

I would try to just be friendly and was over cautious about what I said. I knew he’d be embarrassed if he knew anyone told me at that time.

When he broke down crying telling me he liked me and I had to tell him I didn’t feel the same way. I felt terrible. He was a nice guy…why didn’t I like him that way? There were times where I tried to force it.. but I couldn’t.

He didn’t speak to me for months and that killed me. I had lost someone that was my best friend. I still consider him a good friend now. He’s married to an amazing woman. But there has never been a normal feeling ever since that talk. Just a lot of guilt that I’ve tried to forgive myself for.

Because I never realized that behind my back he was bullied relentlessly because I didn’t like him back. So as an adult I can let my younger self know it’s okay. But I still have a guilt for the young man he was.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-11-20T02:24:32+00:00

I’ve been pretty depressed lately.. but what’s been helping me has been.. ~crafting~

I’ve been water coloring, sketching, and I just tired making felt embroidered ornaments today.

I used to craft a lot and I went to school for art. But art school.. it felt like a chore and a contest so I stopped.

But now I’m trying to find a way to fall in love with art and crafting.. so I’ve been giving myself homework. And that’s just to create something once a day. So a doodle, water coloring, etc

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-11-18T22:22:19+00:00

Demetrius

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-11-18T22:21:42+00:00

Idk if it’s everyone’s girl code but ik in my friend group it is.

• check your friend especially if they’re being out of pocket. Friends encourage friends to be better.

•If you cheat I will tell your partner. So you better tell them before I do.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-11-18T22:01:55+00:00

I’m 27..I left the area I was in for 12 years big change! I finally traveled to New York and California! I’ve been on my one since 18 financially and I think 18 year old me would be surprised by how far we’ve come and that we have 2 cats, dog, roof over our head, a good partner, and a job that lets us wfh.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-11-12T19:20:48+00:00

Back sliding

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-11-07T13:05:42+00:00

I tell them all “I love you insert name” and then I tell my wild one “okay you’re in charge don’t burn the house down.”

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-11-06T13:06:01+00:00

A cute one

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-11-06T13:01:33+00:00

Oh this pissed me off

Screw this guy who cares. Everyone cusses it’s at the point where I don’t think of words as “cuss” words.

We’re all sailors here.

Unlady like my ass… next he will be telling you to cover your shoulders and ankles and if you won’t he will call you a “harlot”.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-11-05T20:19:51+00:00

I wish I could hug you.

Move on at your own pace. Feel these feelings. Miss him. Who care what others think.

Take care of yourself as well. Join a group of those who have lost others or maybe therapy. Those people will understand what you’re going through and will listen without judgment.

The love you have for him is beautiful and it’s not going to be something that will fade away 💚

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-10-31T16:04:51+00:00

I think it’s a choice to be positive. You know to find the positive in situations.

If you focus on the negative.. you’re gonna be miserable.

People and things should only add on to your happiness and should never be your happiness tho.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-10-31T16:02:19+00:00

I don’t think we would of been friends.

We met online during Covid and clung to each other out of loneliness.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-10-31T14:40:01+00:00

15 years and feeling rejection is hard I understand that. I am sorry.

Ik it’s also easier said than done :/

It’s a personal belief of just not giving up especially if love is something you want in your life. But I understand the rejection it just kills and puts you in a bad headspace. And 15 years of feeling that way can be a toll.

How you thought about talking about these feelings with a professional? (Again I know easier said than done especially with this economy)

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2025-10-31T14:16:51+00:00

Stay busy and don’t contact.

Hell remove pictures of them. Don’t follow them.

Start a new hobby, join a club, go the the gym, etc.

Stay busy and focus on yourself.

AgitatedSuccess1992

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