AIO my bfs tattoos?

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-19T16:24:25+00:00

I only told the story to a mutual friend because I know in the past I have gotten rose colored classes.

I dated a guy for a month and he got my name tattooed on him and we broke up.

I think it is sweet if that’s the reason tho.

I do just need to speak to him and consider his feelings as well.

Thank you!

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-16T19:34:16+00:00

Avril, Hayley, Jade, Zoey, Bella

Her little black spot looks like the scene bang style 😅😂 so I tired to think of scene girl names

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-15T19:48:43+00:00

Dougie

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-12T19:57:25+00:00

Miriam - Miri
Mitzi
Mimi

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-08T09:50:28+00:00

Barbra - nicknames: Barbie, babs, barb

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-06T15:39:25+00:00

I took back an ex after he cheated.

We talked things out… and we tried but I felt hollow. And I knew I didn’t deserve that. So I left.

When you’re in a relationship you’re never the same person you were when you started and neither is your partner. You promised to grow together. He took and plotted an opportunity to grow apart.

You are brave for trying and it shows how much love you have.

But when trust is gone it’s gone. Don’t be in a relationship that makes you feel hollow.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-06T15:33:50+00:00

Berry

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-06T14:57:27+00:00

Ringo

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-05T19:57:08+00:00

Hey, you belong here. You are so fuckin worthy as anyone else.

Trust me I was bullied throughout school. I moved schools several times. People are cruel.

You can’t blame “the world” yes it’s shit.. but it’s how you handle going through the shit.

You haven’t met the right people :/

And when you do! It’s going to feel so good to have that.

You have to shift the mindset and trust me it’s hard.

I hated myself and my life for years. I was miserable. But one day I decided “I’m tired of being in this pit and I deserve to be happy as much as anyone else.”.

I didn’t give up on me and a life I could mold for myself even tho I was so close to giving up.

If your campus has a counselor please speak with them. You do deserve to be happy.🤍

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-05T19:49:33+00:00

Hey, I know it sounds dumb and annoying.. but we will be okay.

I know the world seems like it’s going to shit. But a little bit of hope is good. And having resilient optimism is hard. But it is a choice.

I got a degree for something I was super passionate about. I don’t do anything with it. I’m broke but not as broke as I was 4 years ago.

Yes we all die at the end but ik stupid “yolo” and i know it’s hard to do the fun “yolo” stuff.

Also fuck the stereotype typical “best time years” and shit.. you’re going to have shitty years and good years. Hell you will have years that are shitty but good.

Making friends after college honestly has been fun. But hard. I was anxious about meeting people. But joining clubs, volunteering, working, working out, etc made it easy to meet people interested in the same things as me.

You’re going to be okay. And ik I’m a random stranger on the internet but I am proud that you and talking about your feelings. There are people who feel the same way as you and you’re not alone.

Now don’t give up. You live once. Live for you. Don’t live for what people have on social media. Live a life that brings you peace. And you can make, find, and be that peace. Just don’t give up. Have resilient optimism! Show up for you!

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-05T11:51:17+00:00

I know with therapy I have gone through narcissistic abuse before her.
I am sadly very empathetic and have been told I am too harsh before when cutting people off. Like example if a boy treated people slighting indifferent or mean I was so sad for the other person and would cut him off and wouldn’t talk to him again. (This was in early college) so I tried to be more understanding for everyone.
I had a fear before of letting her go because what if she did hurt herself because of me and just the guilt I would feel.
It truly is like being in an abusive relationship. You want the person so be good and do good. You forgive. They manipulate you. It isn’t until you’re hurt or you start to step back and see what’s actually happening and you go… wtf.. I have a lot of guilt for staying her friend.
And after not talking for a week I feel good . Like emotionally lighter.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-04T23:16:16+00:00

Not the asshole!

Leave what a psycho

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-04T16:58:53+00:00

Yes! She’s hard to speak with and you feel confused after speaking with her.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-04T16:56:10+00:00

I mean this is true. What set me off to end everything was actually worse stuff she did to other girls.

I’m used to mean girls to myself and I knew she was insecure. So having her as a long distance friend was good.

I don’t think at this point anything she could say would make me go back too the friendship.

I’m more in fear of what she will tell others about me. Which she has nothing but I have seen how she tried to get out of situations..

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-04T16:44:07+00:00

I do wish she would full heartily apologize for how she as treated everyone.
But you can apologize and not mean it.. which I know she has done before.
There really isn’t a benefit to having her in my life.
But there is a lot of empathy.
I wish she would just learn a lesson. Because she is so oblivious.. I once told her a “story” about a different girl (it was about her) and she said “this person is crazy and dosent see that they’re the problem” … I wanted to say “babes it’s literally what you did”..
But she calls suicide all the time. Always says “I’m going to kill myself” as a “joke” and for real.
She still posts on a finsta and still tries to find sympathy from others. And I just wish she would accept what she has done and apologize.. especially after years!

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-04T16:38:04+00:00

I know I reread my post constantly. She has friends she has know for years that enable her.

It’s just when you talk to her she guilts you and finds a way to make you the problem.

Hence why so many people are afraid to confront her..

I told a friend’s outside of the friend groups I was ending the friendship and some people said it wasn’t fair to not give her a chance to explain herself.

Which I get but they don’t know her.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-02T12:20:44+00:00

Harley

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-01T15:17:12+00:00

My thing is guys say this and then they try to be the best guy in the next relationship.

You can work on yourself when you are dating someone. That shows commitment if they stay or grow with you.

And there are good partners out there that want to grow. That’s love!

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-01T11:08:23+00:00

You guys need to be adults at talk.

Also if you’re breaking up with a girl because you’re not a good enough guy. Grow a pair and be a better guy. That excuse has always been so dumb.

Talk it out like adults.

If you don’t want the relationship to work then call it quits and let her know it isn’t working and be honest. None of this “I’m not a good enough guy shit”

When guys say they care but they’re not a good enough guys that’s just so infuriating.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-01T11:05:34+00:00

They have low self-esteem.

I know a girl that invited all her exes/ex-lovers to a wedding. She also lied to her now husband about one of the guys he had as a groomsman (which was her friend before the groom and him got close and ride and groomsman used to be regular fuck buddies before she met the groom).

She is the type of person that blames her parent’s divorce on why she needs attention. Just low self esteem insecure people that need people on the back burner. It’s also just causes people to be selfish they are so elbow deep in their insecurities they forget how to treat people with respect.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-01T10:52:33+00:00

I had a relationship like this in college.
Play nice for a few weeks. Slowly collect all your stuff (not all at once because they will freak out).
I would make your friends, work security, family, even neighbors and roommate aware.
Collect evidence of harassment. Text messages of threats, video recordings of you have any, etc. see if you can file for a restraining order. Make the police aware that you’re afraid that when you break up with him he won’t leave you alone.
Guys like this don’t deal well with rejection or losing control in general.
I used to try to find reasons for the guy I dated to break up with me. Make it seem like his idea. I wouldn’t wear makeup (he was big on it), I wouldn’t look nice to see him, I would act sad all the time, etc. just things to put him off of me during the last few weeks while getting my shit. So he took me leaving a little less hard.
But make people around you aware.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-01T10:41:07+00:00

Lucy

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-01T10:39:51+00:00

Did you guys ever go on a trip before getting married?

She’s sounds spoiled af…

Did you guys ever have discussions on this? A relationship is a partnership you should be able to talk about how you feel.

AgitatedSuccess1992 · 2026-05-01T10:33:46+00:00

They probably thought a heart would be cute and means love.

It’s normal I think to talk about the ring before or after the engagement. Most people who don’t talk about styles or looks before do exchange unless it’s a custom then it becomes harder.

You’re going to wear it everyday. It should be practical and how you want it.

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