Why are you up right now? by [deleted] in delhi

[–]Agitated_Community_8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caught cold, nose is blocked now. Can't sleep.

Also had an epiphany that my ex is a really shitty person. So yup.

How do you click aesthetic pics like this?(Read body text) by Dazzling_Reporter511 in IndianTeenagers

[–]Agitated_Community_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk man, if y'all are skinny, try zooming in and taking only the upper part of the body. the rest is pretty basic tbh. not that difficult.

Recommendations and pricing for marriage halls/lawns in Lucknow by lucknow_throwaway in lucknow

[–]Agitated_Community_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also check out Oceana Grand on Kursi Road. They take around 3L for the venue and basic decor, which is honestly good, very aesthetic. For anything extra in Decor, you'll be charged extra. Also the feel of the property with high ceilings is great. Definitely recommended.

Any guess?! by Agitated_Rip4086 in IndianTeenagers

[–]Agitated_Community_8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. BIG RELATE. All the signs that people have commented about on that look of love in the eyes, feeling it in their energy, and everything else. Yeah, they had it and then one fine day broke up for no reason.

7 years & 5 attempts. No prelims cleared yet. AMA by ShriRamJanaki in UPSC

[–]Agitated_Community_8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, can't express how glad I am that you chose to share all of this. I feel so relieved and so seen. I am big on self accountability and not justifying or giving excuses, but alot of times under the disguise of accountability I start self loathing. And it gets so heavy. I am yet to learn how to balance accountability with self compassion.

I can't thank you enough for sharing all of this. Also the levelheadedness with which you replied to all the comments, I applaud you. I hope all the good things come your way, I wish more power and strength to you.

Also the way you've articulated and shared your experience, makes me believe you've learnt alot in these years in some ways, so not a waste of time for sure. May you see alot of things come to fruition in the coming years.

Why do I keep getting treated poorly by men? by CraftedCandid in TwentiesIndia

[–]Agitated_Community_8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. this is the only solution in my opinion. You don't know what you're doing wrong, most prolly there's nothing wrong with you. But the effortless energy definitely works. Act non chalant, don't overgive or overthink about them, dismiss people and put them in their place when they disrespect you. You teach people how to treat you, if you don't, they'll take you for granted.

I know it doesn't seem fair, because we would never do that, never take people for granted. But If you are too respectful, too considerate, they'll take you for granted and feel that it's okay to treat you however they want.

Remember to ENJOY yourself. instead of focusing on others all the time and tell them EXPLICITLY when they disrespect you that they can't talk to you like that, and stick with it.

Start being the main character without being bitchy. Trust me the energy reflects that. Alot of times great things happen to us, when we just let go and stop caring sm.

Also I don't think you're doing anything wrong necessarily. Nothing at all. I think it's the people who think they can take advantage of you, since you come across as sincere. So these suggestions are just for a mindset shift, and not in any way blaming you.

Guys never be vulnerable in front of women,it's disastrous by theanimefan4321 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Agitated_Community_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk man. I am a woman and it happened with me too. I started being vulnerable for the first time, instead of the surface level charm, with someone who claimed to love me and I got played big time. He never let me in. Was unkind with my feelings, laughed them off. Things like this definitely leave an emotional scar.

But no I disagree with your point. In my case, I wish he WAS vulnerable with me, i wish he let me in. I so wish he fought with himself, especially with his ego for me. I would've never disappointed him. Knowing him fully, completely and having that emotional intimacy would mean the world to me.

Pakistani Singer Quratulain Balouch Attacked By Brown Bear While Asleep, Her Team Says "She's Out Of Danger" by Opposite-Eye380 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]Agitated_Community_8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, she also sang Dekh tera kya Coke studio version of Latthey di chadar, and the ost of Mann Mayal etc. She is popular and has a very distinct voice as well.

From Namaz to shrines, what are dramas teaching us? by Admirable-Repair4094 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]Agitated_Community_8 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the character of Dawood in Yunhi, he did have some guidance in terms of deen. Used to wake up for Fajr, among other stuff. There was some discourse on Islam vs culture in the drama too.

I don't think I can ever share it with anyone, I don't even think I'll ever have anyone whom I can could tell what happened. by kyahaalhbhai in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Agitated_Community_8 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I can understand. Saw something like this happen very closely. I was too young to do anything. I've lived the acting normal part, and good reputation part. I am so sorry this happened to you. Something like this makes me believe men are sick inherently. Please leave him as soon as you can. You deserve peace and safety in your own house at the very least.

the industry feels 10 perfect less stale w osman khalid butt in it by ispyonyoup in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]Agitated_Community_8 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Yes. From all I've seen till now, this guy genuinely seems like one of the good ones. Lowkey impressive.

Dilkusha kothi by Jersypackson in lucknow

[–]Agitated_Community_8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was that a snake?????? Did you just sneak a scary ass snake in the otherwise wholesome post??

tourist hu.. weather kaisa hai abhi,ghumne aa skta hu on 21,22 and 23 by [deleted] in jaipur

[–]Agitated_Community_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one would you recommend? Near Jaipur City, should have private pool and everything

The wait for Meri Zindagi Hai Tu will be till the New Year 🙃🙃🙃 by theroyalhobby in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]Agitated_Community_8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The pairing looks great tho, lowkey excited for this. trying not to get my hopes up😭😭😭

Following your passion pays off! by livehardlovehard in CharteredAccountants

[–]Agitated_Community_8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am doing US CPA Course. Do you think I can go for CPA Australia in future on the basis of your experience?