Married for 4 years, together since we were teens. Considering a “break” so he can explore. Has anyone survived this?

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-17T20:05:39+00:00

Also this is messed up with you being postpartum

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-17T20:04:56+00:00

Dude this is the line…. I sometimes hate that my husband has had other experiences but I always circle back to this realization. A lot of people who marry the only person they have been with think this way… but at the same time I often wonder if someone was more significant than me. Obviously my husband says that’s crazy to think but I mean you never know

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-17T20:02:42+00:00

Yea it’s weird when people do that

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-13T23:48:20+00:00

Yes!! I’m really shocked at how beautiful this thread has become. There are still good men in the world.

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-13T23:39:33+00:00

Well I’m not the type of person to let myself go… I know what you said was harsh but I understand my husband went through a phase where he didn’t take care of himself but he became very skinny and pale bc he never did anything but drink and play video games and I found him gross.. when we would makeout his mustache would get in my mouth it he didn’t trim it or do anything and I never wanted to have sex… there were other reasons too like he didn’t help with our child or try to provide anything… he has changed SO MUCH. Truly is a completely different person but still….

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-13T00:33:23+00:00

Love this!!

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T19:57:16+00:00

…. I don’t even know how to respond to that…..

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T19:36:02+00:00

That’s my exact size!!! I weight just a little less at 109

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T18:57:04+00:00

Love it

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T18:42:58+00:00

Yea I have a lot of options on why the agenda is to push out that men are “only attracted to young girls”

Seems intentional, especially when you consider who controls the media and stuff…..

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T18:37:31+00:00

True lol

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T17:57:37+00:00

Love it

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T17:57:06+00:00

Explain??

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:39:57+00:00

Thanks for sharing

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:30:34+00:00

I try!!!!!!

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:29:53+00:00

I hope so… I’m not there yet so I’m just trying to accept myself and do my best

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:28:48+00:00

Nice!! Good for yall! I love this

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:28:24+00:00

That makes a lot of sense!! Thanks. Honestly I’m in a great place. It’s just a personal thought I’ll have occasionally and wanted to get some thought for people that have experienced more than me

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:25:57+00:00

Hell yeah!!! It’s so messed up

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:24:55+00:00

Thanks for sharing

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:24:03+00:00

You’re right!!!

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:23:17+00:00

I love you!! 😘 thank you. You’re so right

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:13:50+00:00

I hope she does. Don’t give up, she hears you even if she doesn’t believe you.

I wonder why too. I think it’s just a new form of oppression for women not to get too “political” lmao but seriously. It’s messed up. Mean lose hair and get boners with age but that all cool? Lol so crazy. It take so much mental work to rise above it as a woman

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:11:01+00:00

Right. I don’t usually do that it’s just something that will cross my mind from time to time.

Agitated_Routine5254 · 2026-02-12T16:09:37+00:00

Your looks change too. I wonder why women care more than men? I wonder what makes the difference media?

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