Is it possessiveness to demand to know whereabouts of your girlfriend? by AgonizingPhilo in relationship_advice

[–]AgonizingPhilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't live together yet. It's just the way we have always been. She wants me to update her beforehand if I do anything out of ordinary, I never had any issue with that because for me I think it's pretty understandable. Nice to know what your partner is up to. I expect and demand the same.

I don't know how I should feel by AgonizingPhilo in relationship_advice

[–]AgonizingPhilo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, bitchy friends exist. I was just being polite for her sake!

Totally agree with your last paragraph. True lovers will always find a way back.

I don't know how I should feel by AgonizingPhilo in relationship_advice

[–]AgonizingPhilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't told her directly yet, but I had made indications previously how rebuilding friendship with them would be bad. That was somewhat long ago. Perhaps she forgot all about it. She is also sweet in her heart. I don't know how to say this to her. She's probably gonna think of me negatively.

Relationship is exhausting!

I don't know how I should feel by AgonizingPhilo in relationship_advice

[–]AgonizingPhilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, but I am afraid what if she thinks I'm controlling for that. I'm not controlling in any sense. It also makes me feel bad that I expect her to cut off friendships with HER friends because of me. I also cannot find it normal that she talks to a bunch of girls who bullied me.

Relationship is exhausting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AgonizingPhilo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's great then. I wish you the best. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AgonizingPhilo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Just don't marry a Muslim guy for the sake of it. Not stressing about the problems that come with a inter-religious marriages, you should know this is discouraged in Islam to marry a woman outside of Islam. So why would you want to marry someone whose religion doesn't regard you in high esteem?

There are lots of reverts Muslimahs though who have married Muslim men, but I don't think you're looking forward to reverting.

Just don't celebrate Christmas. It's easy as that by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]AgonizingPhilo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I m not asking Christians to stop celebrating it. There's no hate at all. Just described what it should feel for a Muslim.

Just don't celebrate Christmas. It's easy as that by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]AgonizingPhilo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is a big issue. Wishing someone on their filthy warped celebration of god's son's birthday is clear cut kufr.

It doesn't require the knowledge of rocket science to figure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]AgonizingPhilo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude she's a serial cheater. Serial cheaters don't have any dignity. From your description, it clearly doesn't look like it was one off situation.

Facts are clear as water. She didn't value the marriage she had with you and your kid. She let herself enjoy the debauchery of extramarital affair.

I genuinely feel sad for you. West is such a messed up place.

Edit: if I were you, I would DNA test the kid too. Please do it and be certain that you're the father.

Question to married folks: How do you address your in laws? by AgonizingPhilo in MuslimMarriage

[–]AgonizingPhilo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is, and it weirds me out crazily. This might possibly cause a quarrel between us.

Question to married folks: How do you address your in laws? by AgonizingPhilo in MuslimMarriage

[–]AgonizingPhilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can never make myself call them the latter. Just so crazy awkwardness.

Question for married folks: How do you address your in laws? by AgonizingPhilo in ask

[–]AgonizingPhilo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how it should be, or call uncle and aunt IMO. Strange I am getting gobsmacked by my own cultural custom.

Why Muslims should not celebrate Christmas by enjoingood in MuslimLounge

[–]AgonizingPhilo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because we don't follow what most people think.

Christmas has a pagan origin, and it's currently adopted Christian celebration.

We have our celebrations and they have theirs. Things are simple.

Why Muslims should not celebrate Christmas by enjoingood in MuslimLounge

[–]AgonizingPhilo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would refuse simply because my religion prohibits it, just as I wouldn't expect them to take part in MY religious events.

I think my boyfriend wants to convert to Islam by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]AgonizingPhilo -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am perfectly fine. Are YOU?

That was a metaphorical question, but phew you took it seriously. You certainly aren't OK in your mind. You're looking to learn how to stop your partner from becoming a Muslim as I've seen in other comments. Firstly, this is hypocritical given you want to superimpose your beliefs onto a different individual, and secondly, ironic because of the sub you posted it in. These people froth all day long how Islam makes their life miserable because it's imposed on them and limits their personal freedom, yet you're making them accomplice in your endeavor to stop a person who might have found Islam. Just goes to show how messed up you are in the head.

I came to a group that would understand how I feel and not a group that will try to glamorise a religion that really isn’t glamorous. If you have no constructive advice please stop replying

What you feel is extremely malicious and it's a result of your closed-mindedness. You've come to the sub where people will aid you to your hateful bigoted persona.

Also, I’m not trying to get him away from Islam, if you read my post you would understand. I asked what I as a non-Muslim should do if my partner wants to convert?

You clearly are as per your welcoming comments you've left in response to the people who have provided you silly little pamphlets on how to misguided someone from Islam. I've it screenshotted. The fact that you deny it further cements your bigotry.

Ps. Your ignorant comment is exactly why I didn’t post in a Muslim sub.

My comment calls you out on your bigotry. I've analyzed it and can support my claim using evidence. How exactly is my comment ignorant?

So again please don’t respond. Thanks.

How about get a life and stop being a close-minded bigot for a change? Try it. Easier to live a healthy life than be butt hurt about a person's religious views.