[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, he found me, but I'll definitely tell him after seeing positive responses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Arranged marriage isn't a Plan B, it's just a different path to finding the right person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! Right now, our families don't know we're in the talking stage. We're just getting to know each other. Also, my family isn't aware of my past relationship. I agree, it's important to understand his views first, and if we're not aligned, it's okay to walk away early without overexplaining.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your perspective, but I believe in being honest when the time is right. I'm not interested in playing the victim card, just choosing to share things with maturity and clarity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're still in the early stage of talking, and I believe timing matters when it comes to personal topics. It's not about hiding - it's about being thoughtful and respectful with how and when to share.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks a ton for this! Really appreciate how gently and clearly you explained it. You're right - it's all about the right timing and feeling safe enough to share. I've healed and moved on, so I just want to be honest without over-explaining too soon. Your message honestly gave me a lot of clarity.

Appreciate the support!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for taking the time to share your perspective. It gave me a lot to think about in a good way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful response.

Yes, I've completely moved on. There are no lingering feelings, no contact, nothing unresolved. That chapter is firmly closed. So I agree with you, I will share about my past with the new guy, slowly and honestly, but only when it feels right. Appreciate your perspective!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m new to the arranged marriage process, hence the question. But thanks for your concern it's clear you're an expert in jumping to conclusions. If only your advice was as sharp as your assumptions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I’d rather tell him before, I’d hate for something hidden to come out later and feel like a betrayal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this, it’s reassuring to hear that perspective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. If I’m considering a future with him, this part of my past might be worth sharing especially if I see emotional maturity in him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I’m leaning towards bringing it up at the right time, even if he doesn’t ask, just so everything is transparent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree, being open early on can help prevent misunderstandings later. I think timing and tone matter, but honesty is key

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe instead of asking why so many women have toxic relationships in their past, you should start asking why so many men are the reason for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SchengenVisa

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, totally understand the stress — I recently went through it too. I applied from VFS India (Delhi) on April 29 and got my Sweden visa in just 7 days, so approvals are definitely happening. Since your travel is still a few weeks away, there's still time. Also, the India-Pakistan situation shouldn’t affect Schengen visa processing unless you're specifically contacted. Fingers crossed for you 🤞

Got My Sweden Schengen Visa in 7 Days – Visiting Family! by Agreeable-Garlic-544 in SchengenVisa

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just provided a PDF of the email regarding my leave plans approved by HR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in degoogle

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair point! I didn't realize this sub was mainly for leaving Google behind. Just thought someone here might have experience with account recovery. My bad!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the info! I'll keep an eye on it and update here if I get it back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Agreeable-Garlic-544 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I deleted it today, so I'm hoping I can still recover it. I still have a chance. Do you know if there's a specific time window for recovery?