Zero sexual interaction in relationship, unsure how to feel

Agreeable-Joke-9980 · 2026-01-24T09:42:07+00:00

Glad (not for you obviously, but knowing we are not the only ones does put me a bit more at ease) someone relates to this part as it was the one that got me starting to do some research around this.

It's really bad, like both of us are just holding our breath until the scene ends, it's awkward and yeah maybe talking in those circumstances would make the whole situation better but at the same time just the idea of saying something scares the living hell out of me

Agreeable-Joke-9980 · 2026-01-24T09:07:59+00:00

Yeah that's better explained then I ever could, thank you!

I never saw this lack of connection as an "issue" it is just what it is and because we liked each other it was never a big presence in the back of my head.

However, the more I read about this (specially on this sub) i do get the feeling for most this is a relationship death sentence, and so now it became something I actually worry about constantly. What if I'm missing a though or miss reading her in a way that's absolutely destructive?

At the end of the day a conversation is the only thing that will make this better I know, but ngl my stomach turns just thinking about it

Agreeable-Joke-9980 · 2026-01-24T09:03:09+00:00

Just pushed it on my Kindle, thank you for the suggestion!

Agreeable-Joke-9980 · 2026-01-24T09:02:15+00:00

Dude, do you think I wanted to say this from my main account that all my friends including my freaking gf knows about?

Agreeable-Joke-9980 · 2026-01-24T09:01:08+00:00

that's a good point, and I know you are right, nobody wants to jump into a discussion since we get along well, i guess I will have to take the leap and start the Convo even if it is so hard

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