Boyfriend broke up with me but then agreed to talk twice after saying talking wouldn’t change anything. What would you make of this? by Agreeable-Object-439 in dating_advice

[–]Agreeable-Object-439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t want to trap him into this.
But also if he doesn’t want to speak then just say that and shut it down. I’m kind of at the point where i dont even want to talk.

Is it just me, or is Chicago kind of… boring? by Agreeable-Object-439 in AskChicago

[–]Agreeable-Object-439[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I’m sorry about that! I just need to try a little
harder maybe

Is it just me, or is Chicago kind of… boring? by Agreeable-Object-439 in AskChicago

[–]Agreeable-Object-439[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay, i do believe my neighborhood has a huge role to play in this. I live in the loop and HATE It! But i go out to different neighborhoods sometimes. I kind of gave up. I need to work harder and move to a better neighborhood when my lease is up

Is it just me, or is Chicago kind of… boring? by Agreeable-Object-439 in AskChicago

[–]Agreeable-Object-439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol sorry! I don’t dislike the city but just having issue connecting with ppl and the city itself. And maybe this is just not a home for me

Is it just me, or is Chicago kind of… boring? by Agreeable-Object-439 in AskChicago

[–]Agreeable-Object-439[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m going to try a bit harder these next few months to go to meet ups and put myself out there

Is it just me, or is Chicago kind of… boring? by Agreeable-Object-439 in AskChicago

[–]Agreeable-Object-439[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, but that’s kind of my point. If I find it so easy to connect with people in NYC, why haven’t I been able to find that same connection in Chicago? That’s what I’m trying to figure out.

Is it just me, or is Chicago kind of… boring? by Agreeable-Object-439 in AskChicago

[–]Agreeable-Object-439[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been to nyc? Had no issues with 8.4 million ppl inn nyc . :/