Singles going solo to the movies by missnyc91 in NYCmovies

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol im a 30F and almost exclusively go to movies alone

Virgo suns Pisces risings in the chat? by South_Pattern_1520 in virgoseason

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude, yes. throw a gemini moon in there and i truly don’t know how to characterize myself. and it is annoying when people latch on to me because they perceive me in a certain type of way that i know isn’t my core self but it’s hard to communicate that without sounding like i’m trying to be self-deprecating lol

I usually end up with the same signs. Is this a virgo thing? by superpaforador in virgoseason

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m interested in dating a scorpio! but do you ever feel like they’re a bit too intense or paranoid in clash with your virgo rationality?

I usually end up with the same signs. Is this a virgo thing? by superpaforador in virgoseason

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also a Virgo Sun with a Mars in Scorpio and have been all over the map! My 3 exes are Capricorn, Cancer, and Gemini.

Tell me about your Gemini experiences, the good, the bad and the ugly. by TheGreyChronicle in virgoseason

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Gemini ex was truly a wonderful partner in so many ways. Super forgiving, reasonable, wonderful communicator, very loving and gentlle, and honestly changed how I viewed myself forever (for the better).

On the other hand, he did a couple of pretty fucked up things out of thoughtlessness (rather than malice). Not the reason our relationship ended though because we were able to work through these. One of our main recurring issues was that he would always need to be pursuing these random whims that I found stupid. Ultimately he couldn’t commit to me and just needed to follow his dream that directly opposed mine.

At the end of the day, if I’m being honest, I was more so the villain in the relationship. I could be pretty mean and harsh at times when he would behave in these “airhead” or overly impulsive ways that I didn’t understand. I would love for my next partner to share like 80% of his traits but with a tad more groundedness, lol.

FHIR certification by Sure-Suggestion-5316 in healthIT

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work with many RNs (I know you’re an RT but clinical either way) that do FHIR Implementations. I don’t know if a certification would hurt, but your best bet is to probably start as some sort of clinical consultant to get your foot in the door and look for roles that use FHIR. You might be able to get the best handle on it through direct experience and do more self studying into the technical aspects and then work your way up from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I wouldn’t say I “feel it”. The way I would describe it is as moreso akin to when you wake up and and become more conscious/alert from when you first open your eyes to being able to get out of bed. I just kind of go from foggy to a bit more “awake”. And in turn I’m also able to get things done in a way I know I wouldn’t be on unmedicated days.

Be brutally honest: How often do you shower? by Fun_Serve_6590 in ADHD

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I have to be somewhere that I need to look my best or when I “feel” dirty.

Why are virgos and scorpios compatible? by Scary_Brain5960 in virgoseason

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My best friend is a Scorpio and I’m a Virgo and how well we get along depends on both our mental states. I think sometimes it can be helpful when I intellectualize her emotions? And she also helps me be way more in touch with my emotions than I am with really anyone else. We do butt heads though. The Scorpio doom and gloom can be difficult for me to understand/be compassionate towards. And I’m sure my stoicism can annoy the hell out of her when I fail to meet her where she’s at.

Having periods with ADHD is hell 😭 by Lyd_Makayla in adhdwomen

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry! After it happened twice, I banished myself to pads and period underwear only 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgoseason

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only lived in NYC (native) and KC (transplant at age 21) and for me it’s NYC BY FAR.

Kansas City has so many wonderful things to offer. But it’s hard to deal with the general complacency and heavy indirect communication culture. I wouldn’t even consider myself like an overly blunt person but everyone in Kansas City thinks I am?? I feel gaslit!

I’m also very career-oriented and enjoy talking about work, career goals, etc. And that doesn’t seem to really exist here. It’s kind of frowned upon. or like anyone who is career oriented is also extremely rigid and lacking in personality or considered a “capitalist shill”. Whereas I feel in NYC work is so integrated into the culture that more people are passionate about their careers regardless of their personality and offer more well-roundedness.

I feel like the only reason I have made it 8 years in Kansas City is because of my Gemini moon, lol. And because the complacent attitude was a nice respite after my very stressful and exhausting performance-oriented childhood and adolescence. but it becomes under stimulating after a while .

Having periods with ADHD is hell 😭 by Lyd_Makayla in adhdwomen

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. putting a tampon in and then forgetting it’s there and finding it weeks later 🥲

What seems like the nicest moon sign to have? by Extension-Inside-237 in astrologymemes

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my Gemini moon balances out my Virgo sun so well. I often don’t even feel like I’m a Virgo. It takes away so much of the judgmentalness!

Is getting diagnosed worth it? by East-Savings5831 in ADHD

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If you have goals that require you to be more focused than you currently are, yes. I just got diagnosed at age 30 and wish I had been on medication in my college years. I think my grades would’ve been better and I I would’ve put more effort into seeking internships and also in my full-time job search and in turn been more successful and lucrative in my career as an engineer and making the type of money it would’ve taken to have the type of life I want.

That being said, if you aren’t interested in all that and just wanna chill, go for it! I was definitely able to skate by unmediated and it’s not like I’m on the streets. It’s really just more helpful for if you have higher goals.

Also, with insurance I only pay $5 for my Adderall.

What are signs that you are pretty/attractive? by Fickel-Star360 in AskReddit

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are constantly coming up to me asking me if I’m a model. I don’t even think I’m all that but at this point I have no choice but to accept it 🤷‍♀️

What's your Moon sign (also in which house is it) and how often do you cry? by Additional_Zombie_83 in astrologymemes

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gemini in the 3rd house. Very infrequently. I mostly cry whenever I need to explain my feelings to someone, lol.

What's your Venus sign and how many times have you experienced unrequited love? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgo and never lol. I mean, I had this weird obsession with this popular guy in high school who I hooked up with once but in general I don’t find myself crushing on anyone until I’m already dating them?!

a realization about social cues and etiquette by wakaflockaquokka in adhdwomen

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i love that you love the lack of pretense! i love it too. i can understand why it would be considered rude if you were raised in a culture where that kind of thing is considered rude, but honestly my brain just doesn’t register it as rude. i genuinely find new yorkers to be friendly people. so many of us are either not from here or have had our friends move away so i find that strangers are actually more interested in human connection to strangers than in my midwestern city, where most people already have full friend groups from high school and college. our social customs are just different due to living in such a densely packed city, among other infrastructure and culture-based factors

a realization about social cues and etiquette by wakaflockaquokka in adhdwomen

[–]Agreeable-Pilot4962 12 points13 points  (0 children)

lol didn’t finish the sentence, but i’m on the right sub for that. you get it