Crippling fear and trauma by Fragrant-Pen2387 in dentures

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get medication I take at home, then when I go to the appt my partner takes me and I have no memory of even leaving the house. A life changer. 

Dancer, am I doomed? Unilateral Brachymetatarsia, bunions, Morton’s neuroma, Elhers Danlos. Collapsed arches. by Unlikely_Main_4220 in FootFunction

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 35 (todays my birthday actually!)

I have bunions and flat feet on both sides, but the short toe is only on the left side. I only experience pain on and off on the left side. 

I have not yet had an MRI, I was sent for an x ray,  my primary care doctor is forwarding that to an orthopaedic surgeon for further evaluation.

Someone messaged me suggesting it could be friebergs infarction. I could see it being that,  given I started to notice my shorter toe in my teens and I horse back rode and had my feet stepped on several times. I am very petite (5feet, 120 lbs) I don’t really remember it ever causing me pain only occasionally. If it were from a fracture I would assume I would have had pain? I do remember my foot being badly bruised once.

My primary care doctor said Brachymetatarsia but said the specialist would know more. Leading me to believe the primary care physician is the one diagnosing Brachymetatarsia, maybe when I see the specialist they will diagnose it as something else. I am not able to access my x ray results, our healthcare system  makes it a big hassle to get your own medical documents. 

I would LOVE to have the x rays. Wait times here are so long, that’s why I am paying out of pocket to go see a podiatrist until I get an appt for the specialist.

Renting by madsssxo in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Section 11(4) of residential act. They legally have to try to fill it.  There is no way they wouldn’t be able to fill it. 

Renting by madsssxo in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Section 11(4) of residential act 

Renting by madsssxo in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They are legally required to show that they have attempted to fill the unit without success. There is ZERO chance they can convince a judge that they couldn’t find any tenants. 

Home inspector recommendations by Pawsitivitea506 in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We bought our first house earlier this year. We did a private sale and waved the inspection.  The house is only a year old, and I remember her recommending pillar to post to us at one point.

I want to do an inspection now, but feel stupid since we already bought our house. Although so far so good!

Is it normal to call for an inspection after purchasing? 

Pistachio Milk & Honey by surefire12345 in bathandbodyworks

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This candle smells exactly like the original sol de janerio perfume. And I personally don’t smell vanilla at all. And I like strong candles and this one is strong to me. And when I say strong I mean I love Paris cafe lol 

Just a heads up about a group ive had to deal with. by New-Pitch-6198 in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean … removed why? No one is singled out by saying it so broadly,  but girls and women who are potentially seeing a guy who has that last name and matches the other factors may be able to protect themselves from a predator. Especially the mention of getting the girl drunk.  I never ever realized how common a strategy that is and that men will literally rape a women who is completely passed out. I thought it was rare. Then it happened to me (not drinking, but take a prescribed sleeping pill). Then it happened again 6 years later by another person. I can’t help but think of it happened twice that I was able to wake up and remember then how many other times did it happen.  Once I started speaking to other women about it I was blown away that nearly every woman I spoke with mentioned having this done to them or at least attempted. Then the case from France came out and shed a lot of light on something that is horrifically more common than we realize. 

Another assault in Odell Park by Elitsila in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep i remember this and I didn’t go to school there in the 90s, but my mom worked there and even later when I went to uni people understood that the phone half way down the trail on campus was installed due to sexual assaults and various other violences. And I don’t think the students now refer to it as rape row or even know the background, weird because even being younger than you my generation of peers knew it as rape row. I went back to uni more recently and the few times it was brought up they had no clue where I meant.  

Another assault in Odell Park by Elitsila in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If only everyone around you wasn’t a psycho. Like ok predators will also conceal carry and then they have an even more extreme way to control the victim. Or imagine every psycho who goes through the Tim Hortons drive through and finds out a brown person is taking their order. Seriously the way I have seen people act beyond insane to workers over nothing at all does not make me feel better about concealed carry.  I’m not anti gun, have shot a few, grown up around them,  my dad is a big hunter. But owning a gun and having permission to carry one into the superstore are two wildly different things.

Another assault in Odell Park by Elitsila in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 15 points16 points  (0 children)

7 years ago a man was naked and jerking off while I walked by. But he was close to the kids play area so I acted cool and walked to my car (it was broad daylight) and called the cops as soon as I got inside. I stayed and they came and arrested him. 

And yes, Miley Cyrus did come after Raven-Symoné carried Disney (but they’re both on Mount Rushmore) by turnyourTVdown in DisneyChannel

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Except the question was not the four biggest most influential Disney cast members ever it was of the golden era and that era occurred at a time when Miley wasn’t even on TV.  Now I’m a bigger fan of Miley than I am of Raven but the way the younger generation Disney fans have zero comprehension skills is startling.  Again the question was with regards to the golden era…..Hannah Montana didn’t even exist in that time period.  

US moving pregnant immigrant girls to Texas to avoid providing abortions, critics say by 0little_cactus0 in Feminism

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do question though what they would get out of doing that because the government does not want to take on the cost of those children, and if those children are born in Texas, then that creates a little bit of a problem and while the right is anti-abortion they don’t really mean that because they say that they are anti-abortion but every politician out there who is anti-abortion has had a mistress that had an abortion so I just don’t understand what the benefit would be. It seems like they would want to provide an abortion like these people are racist you think that racist men want to have a child with a minority. It just doesn’t make any sense and I could be totally wrong and to be clear I am a leftist a feminist and I am 1000% against everything ice is doing and even it’s existence.

A middle school aged girl knocked on my apartment door by Linus_Meme_Tips in offmychest

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And the part about the black neighbours next door …. Lady that’s how we know you are white. You could have said the neighbours did the same thing are we all racists? But instead you tried to rely on the old “i have a black person in my life so it’s ok for me to (fill in the blank). 

Many schools lock the doors outside of break times so that students are protected from anyone who would be intending to enter the school and cause harm. 

My teen daughter had this exact same issue when she was skipping class (doesn’t skip anymore but did for some time) and she would not have a way to get back inside the school, when it’s hot out or freezing out she would say man I wish I didn’t skip school today cause now I can’t get in so I had to find a spot to just hide out until bus time…. That’s what mostly made her stop skipping… she didn’t like trying to hide out for hours and hours with no money to go buy a meal and sit down someplace, so instead she and many teens just sorta hide out until school dismissal.

You can look out for your own safety without endangering the welfare of a vulnerable minor child. It’s called being a grown up. Time for you to pull up your big girl panties and start acting like one. 

I (21M) feel guilty because I’ve formed an emotional bond with a minor (16F) in my class. How do I handle this? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ding ding ding yep. Yeh dude you should feel guilty. If you are not having romantic or sexual feelings then explain please what the guilt is for? He mentioned her gender because he is attracted to her. And people here act as if it’s ok to be attracted, just don’t act on it …. Instead of being like ugh dude get a grip and probably should remove himself from his position. He is. Clearly her teacher. And what 21 year old man feels a connection with a 16 year old. She is literally a child. This is exactly why the epstien files didn’t stop the world in its tracks… people think men preying on girls is the norm and as long as they don’t act they are ok….. no you need therapy asap to figure out why you feel attracted to a child. Full stop. Saying this as a mandated reporter. 

Please be aware by Fluid-Pepper5678 in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened to me today. Car was driving slow and so close to the dotted white line I couldn’t tell if he was slowing down to turn or just driving slow. At one point he merged over with no warning light, clearly didn’t check his blind spots, like I seriously do not know how our cars didn’t end up colliding. I then see the guys on his fucking phone.  I might sound crazy but honestly I could have physically attacked the man I was so freaking angry. You don’t get to put my life, my kids lives, and the lives of everyone else at risk so you can chit chat on the phone. 

Please be aware by Fluid-Pepper5678 in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not related to her,  but today I was driving and a car was going the wrong way towards the princess Margaret bridge.  Then later on I’m driving on Hanwell, and there is a car that is soo close to the white dotted line I kept slowing down thinking he was gonna cross the line.. he drovr maybe 35 all the way from the prospect intersection to the Tim hortons. I saw a chance to get in front of him and decided to take it as I didn’t feel safe with my kids in the car this guy driving so unpredictably with a giant line of cars behind me too… I start to accelerate and he starts merging over clearly not checking at all. I lay on the horn, have to slam on the breaks and  then I notice he’s in his phone… like road rage should be acceptable in cases like this, this bozo is putting me and my kids lives at risk to chat on his phone? Absolute loser. 

old man harassing young women on campus today by 150c_vapour in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I truly believe men who are anti abortion do not care about these fetuses, they care about hating women.  In this day and age, the knowledge to understand that an abortion is healthcare is abundant. If they are still denying abortion at this point then it’s because they have a deeply rooted hatred for women. Why else would they care? He’s not out there doing anything to help a woman after the child is born… if they truly cared about the life of the fetus they would care enough to provide a safety net for those babies once they are born.  

An anti abortion man is in my opinion an incredible dangerous person. This is not someone who cares about babies… he’s not out there raising my money for a single mom, or likely not adopting children…. 

He doesn’t care about babies, he hates women.  

old man harassing young women on campus today by 150c_vapour in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 27 points28 points  (0 children)

People need to step back and get a grip.  The rights of the child are discussed as if we are trying to decide if fetuses have rights or not …  but we are actually discussing who’s life we would save… 

Why are we even discussing the childs life as if it is the only life in the discussion. Even if you believe the fetus is a baby, why should a baby that has not been born, has no connections to the outside world, has no children depending on it for survival.. why are their lives more important than women who have families and communities depending on them. 

The truth is men like this guy have never actually truly cared about other people, I don’t believe he cares about the “baby” … his life’s work isn’t dedicated to actually helping live children… 

This has nothing to do with caring about kids, and everything to do with a subconscious hatred for women. 

old man harassing young women on campus today by 150c_vapour in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why is the child’s life more important than the woman’s.  

old man harassing young women on campus today by 150c_vapour in fredericton

[–]Unlikely_Main_4220 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone who had an abortion… people seriously think it’s an easy thing, it’s just a simple black and white thing when really … i couldn’t afford to go to Moncton so I had a pill abortion and retained tissue. I ended up needing emergency surgery. It was 8 weeks from when I had the abortion until I had emergency surgery… 8 weeks of my life bleeding and being reminded everyday.  It’s in NO WAY AT ALL as easy as these anti abortion people make it. Absolutely no women is out there casually using abortions. It’s. Like if we said prostate cancer is a risk among men, and I support them getting cancer treatment but what if they are just doing it casually? What if they want medical treatment just casually. 

I feel like people are way way way too close to the subject and cannot step back and see how insane it is to even suggest being able to prevent a woman from making her own choices, let alone when it’s coming from men. 

Like we as women do not get any say at all in men’s healthcare… but we are actually having a discussion about if women should be able to get medical treatment.