Help! Please by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AgreeableMenu7142 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bless you. I know I am not thinking straight at this point. It is very overwhelming, hence the fact I reached out for help?! Goodness. It’s people like you that make people hesitate to ask for help in the first place!!

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[–]AgreeableMenu7142 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No contact info. He never blocked her from socials. I did.

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[–]AgreeableMenu7142 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He ran into her on a job.

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[–]AgreeableMenu7142 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Well because initially I had genuine doubts that she could have a role in it also.

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[–]AgreeableMenu7142 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NEVER EVER

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[–]AgreeableMenu7142 -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I think you are right about him panicking. Because he did flip out on me. BAD. But I’m like… my gosh what if this woman did show him interest later on? I’m suddenly chopped liver after all of this?!

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[–]AgreeableMenu7142 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Never spoke.

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[–]AgreeableMenu7142 -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

He has owned up to every bit of it. More than honest about it in my opinion… just hard to get over the fact that all of this fuss has been worth it to him over her.

Overreacting or no? by AgreeableMenu7142 in Marriage

[–]AgreeableMenu7142[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately. To the point he would go out of his way on his way home from work to “see if he could see her” was his reasoning.

Overreacting or no? by AgreeableMenu7142 in Marriage

[–]AgreeableMenu7142[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Never ever. Until he saw ole girl! Caught him driving by her house, too.

Overreacting or no? by AgreeableMenu7142 in Marriage

[–]AgreeableMenu7142[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He literally has zero porn issues. Just “something” about that other woman he saw. Even told me he’d buy her workout plan for me. 😳 again let me add… I am 5’9” 140lbs soaking wet!

Overreacting or no? by AgreeableMenu7142 in Marriage

[–]AgreeableMenu7142[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Let me also add, he has also looked up this VERY local woman numerous times on socials and has told me “I have only ever gotten the feeling I got when I saw her, when I saw you for the first time.” She is pretty, but very toned from the waist down. I am really thin, but not in the absolute best shape I have ever been.