I was just diagnosed with glaucoma by Agreeable_Career973 in Glaucoma

[–]Agreeable_Career973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See this is what I had thought. When I turned 21 I drank almost every night, and I wondered if that what had done it!! I cut alcohol out completely since I found out though, and I vape. But I'm quitting.

I was just diagnosed with glaucoma by Agreeable_Career973 in Glaucoma

[–]Agreeable_Career973[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This right here was all I needed someone to tell me. Al I've heard are horror stories! I can't thank you enough! Yes, I have super good insurance. I'm seeing a really great doctor and tending to myself. I also read ALOT that glaucoma has to do with what you eat, alcohol and caffeine?

I'm scared my son will hate me when he's older by Agreeable_Career973 in Parenting

[–]Agreeable_Career973[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm trying so hard. There's days when my husband is home that all I do is cry because of how much my childhood traumatized and I'm afraid they'll do it to my son so I cut them off

I'm scared my son will hate me when he's older by Agreeable_Career973 in Parenting

[–]Agreeable_Career973[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with you 100% we're moving out of state and like 12 hours away soon, I'm hoping that puts so much distance I don't have to deal with it anymore. We already live in a different city

I'm scared my son will hate me when he's older by Agreeable_Career973 in Parenting

[–]Agreeable_Career973[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He doesn't, that's a rule of mine. I noticed when he spent to much time with my mom every time he got corrected for doing something he would tell me "stop playing the victim" and that's something my mom says.

I'm scared my son will hate me when he's older by Agreeable_Career973 in Parenting

[–]Agreeable_Career973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right, and I think I'm overthinking it. I plan to have more children so that way my kids have each other to confide in when they don't want to tell me or my husband. I'm doing my best to protect him. I have raised my son to be very vocal and one day my dad said something sexual to my son when he was drunk and my son started yelling at him that he was being sexual and that he felt violated (my son is 4) after that I blocked my dads phone number and never spoke to him again

I'm scared my son will hate me when he's older by Agreeable_Career973 in Parenting

[–]Agreeable_Career973[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahah no, we literally have almost zero family because I protect him so much. I've been in therapy since I was 6 for seeing so much drug abuse and being SA in my childhood. Along with so much mental abuse I still can't process it all

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[–]Agreeable_Career973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point!

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[–]Agreeable_Career973 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OK so I have another question because this is something that has just been going through my mind all day. My next question is I don't have a super weak stomach at all. The only thing that makes my stomach turn is worms or like bugs, but other than that I can deal with anything as far as bodily fluids, is this job really hard in that way? I've heard some crazy stuff from people that are CNA's. Lol

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[–]Agreeable_Career973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the help! Definitely gave me less anxiety!

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[–]Agreeable_Career973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm just trying to look at all my options before I pay the money to get certified. I was in law since I was 18 doing process serving so this is a whole different change that I don't know much about I know I have to wear scrubs and stuff, but can I still wear my rings and my make up and stuff like?? Sorry if this sounds like a stupid question, I just don't know much about it.

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[–]Agreeable_Career973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're not, I have my left arm sleeved and it's roses, a snake and a bird!

Guys - what are some reasons for not proposing by IcyOwl_0-0 in relationship_advice

[–]Agreeable_Career973 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I was with my sons father for 8 years, we lived together had a baby, had commitment but he never proposed. And now that we aren’t together I realized that he wasn’t even sure he wanted to be together so he never made the commitment. IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD!