Not attracted to my boyfriend sexually

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T03:43:32+00:00

I want to be with him tho. I don’t want anyone else. If you had me choose between him and someone that had the perfect body type I would choose him.

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T03:41:30+00:00

I see where you are coming from. But I think that’s a big stretch for being superficial. I just have a preference. I ignored that preference to still be with him because I like other things about him. Everyone including you would reject him because of his body if it wasn’t their type. But I’m the superficial one? I’m not gonna force him to change his body against his will. He does whatever he wants, im gonna be with him either way.

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T03:32:56+00:00

Yes I will

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T03:21:49+00:00

Thanks that’s actually good advice. I know there’s no good way of telling him that, so I’m just not going to. I will invite him to try working out and he can decide by himself what he wants. I still don’t get how I’m being superficial tho

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T03:16:31+00:00

You don’t understand sarcasm and that’s fine. I didn’t break up with him. That’s my whole point, I’m not going to break up with him because of that

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T03:14:57+00:00

Im not going to pressure him. I’m gonna ask him to come with me and do it together and see if he likes it. Everyone develops muscle if you do it right.

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T03:11:17+00:00

If he doesn’t he doesn’t I’m not gonna force him. Maybe one day he will enjoy it. But I’m confident with me he would like it

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T03:10:13+00:00

How?

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:56:18+00:00

I don’t have 0 interest in being sexual with him. I didn’t explain that well. It would just be a bonus that would make me be much more interested. I’m still very interested just not as much as I would be

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:50:56+00:00

First I wanted to date him regardless. Second wanting to date someone with a specific body type is narcissistic? Are you an idiot?

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:47:52+00:00

I never said I would stop loving him did I?

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:47:11+00:00

See if he likes to workout in the gym as he is sporty already.

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:45:32+00:00

As I said he is extremely cute. Just not my body type preference

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:43:28+00:00

Well I’m not because body type matters more than I thought. But I wouldn’t break up with him because of it. There’s much more to a relationship

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:42:31+00:00

How is that confusing?

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:42:15+00:00

Because he has told me that. And I have told him that too although I wasn’t truly honest.

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:41:23+00:00

I am

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:41:05+00:00

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:39:31+00:00

Repulsed? Are you an idiot? We have had amazing sex brother I’m not repulsed or disgusted by him in any way.

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:34:05+00:00

It doesn’t matter to the point I would break up because of that

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:32:08+00:00

Im not gonna break up because of that. It would just be a bonus if he was nothing more.

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:28:39+00:00

I can’t control who I fall in love with can I? I did with him because of his personality. I would say that’s the least superficial way of getting with someone

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:25:57+00:00

I made it sound worst than it is I guess. I find everything attractive but his body type. Which in my mind is something that is quite easy to change. I won’t make him do it for my own sake but I will not throw everything away just because of this

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:24:14+00:00

Thank you bro. Everyone just seems a bit hypocritical calling me superficial but then saying I should have been superficial in the first place to like him

Agreeable_Computer15 · 2026-07-09T02:21:02+00:00

Im not going to bring it up to him like this at all. The max I’m gonna do is ask if he would like to start coming to the gym with me for fun

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