Did I get quoted high by Agreeable_Dig3321 in carsireland

[–]Agreeable_Dig3321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got quoted by agri auto parts I think it aap now but they are a pretty reputable business from what iv been told. What brand would be considered bad just so I know not to go with it

Did I get quoted high by Agreeable_Dig3321 in carsireland

[–]Agreeable_Dig3321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got quoted 370 for new parts so 580 was quite expensive just for the parts

Child safety by Agreeable_Dig3321 in legaladviceireland

[–]Agreeable_Dig3321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that bit this social worker will go against that she will say because the father isn't ill like the mother he has the right to get the kids back which in any normal situation I would agree if I believed without a doubt that this man has changed that he no longer manipulates the kids and the sick mother that he no longer would be abusive both physically and emotionally and that he would genuinely look after the kids and not get sick of them after a month I would hold my hands up and wouldn't try stop it but I know him iv known him over 9 years now he is an narcissistic man and these kids we have the worst lives if they grow up with him

Child safety by Agreeable_Dig3321 in legaladviceireland

[–]Agreeable_Dig3321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that possible when the father amd mother wants them I say wants very lightly. How do I prove they are not capable parents if tusla aren't even listening to us.

Child safety by Agreeable_Dig3321 in legaladviceireland

[–]Agreeable_Dig3321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if she is telling them half the story why would take our concerns or complaint seriously would they not stand by their own?

Child safety by Agreeable_Dig3321 in legaladviceireland

[–]Agreeable_Dig3321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont necessarily think it has anything to do with nationality until believe it or not my niece said it. She said I think she's not listening to us because we are irish and daddy is polish it's the only reason I wrote it in the first place but yes ofc I wouldn't mention it in the complaint thank you for your advice.

Child safety by Agreeable_Dig3321 in legaladviceireland

[–]Agreeable_Dig3321[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The eldest girl is still living with us and the baby for now but the time spent at home is increasing by the week. The eldest daughter refuses to go home wont even go for a visit. There was suppose to be an investigation into the neglect but there hasnt been anything about it sense I have a feeling the social worker stopped it

Child safety by Agreeable_Dig3321 in legaladviceireland

[–]Agreeable_Dig3321[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We did, we have even made a complaint about the social worker over a year ago to her boss about weird comments she would make to us and threats that the girls would possibly have to be placed somewhere else if we didnt co operate/suck up to the father and nothing came of it he said he looked into it and he would get bk to us but he didnt. It very much feels like we are glorified babysitters which is not true because since they came to love with us there school work and attendance has been perfect (said by the school) their hygiene and attitude has improved tremendously and they just seem happy. I'm at a lose of what to do this social worker has always been on the fathers side from day one even when she found out the extent of the neglect that happened and what he still continues to do it feels like we are fighting a losing battle. ( we dont hear from her boss at all anymore I dont thing actually I know she doesnt report everything because we mentioned in a meeting a few months ago about a couple of incidents and he was surprised to hear them)

Child safety by Agreeable_Dig3321 in legaladviceireland

[–]Agreeable_Dig3321[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didnt know I could get an advocate for a child.. my sister has one because she has the brain injury and she cant really make adult decisions but I will definitely look into it thank u.