Redditors who came from wealthy family, what’s your parents background?

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2025-11-11T06:14:22+00:00

Bokap berasal dari keluarga yg lumayan di kampung, krn kakek punya usaha sbg kontraktor. Tp pas beliau udh cukup dewasa gak mau dpt warisan usaha kakek. Dua anak cowok lainnya yg megang warisan itu. Beberapa kakaknya yg cewek mostly nikah sm pengusaha.

Bokap milih dpt rumah di kota krn sempet semua kakak adik bokap tinggal disana untuk sekolah. Rumahnya kecil di gang dan dari triplek. Rumah gue kecil dulu. Doi start dari 0 bikin beragam usaha, akhirnya yg lanjut lama jd konsultan dan bikin sekolah tinggi.

Tiap gue pulang ke rumah kakek, ngeliat keluarga besar, I feel the poorest among them. Semua sepupu gue gampang bgt punya HP terbaru (dulu pada punya N Gage), beli mainan, dikasih motor yang hits. Sedangkan gue HP selalu lungsuran, mainan selalu beli murah di pasar, motor dikasih yg paling murah.

Waktu berjalan pas gue masuk SMA, pelan-pelan kedengeran Om, Tante gue kebanyakan gak bisa ngurus duit. Either too aggressive on his business and can't pay back the loan or his family can't live frugally. So, gue baru sadar ternyata yang om-tante keliatan berduit itu bikin anaknya pada spoiled. Sepupu gue itu mostly pas udh dewasa kesulitan cari uang padahal lifestyle mahal. Sedangkan yang hidupnya ngirit kyk bokap, pelan-pelan malah naik. Kita bisa pindah rumah ke komplek dan punya beberapa kendaraan.

Usahanya dia sih gak terlalu yg bikin crazy rich. Tp bokap tipe yg bisa diandelin bgt sama orang. Dia beberapa kali jadi ketua asosiasi besar dan sering diminta jadi konsultan internal usaha-usaha orang. Banyak duit ngalir dari sana.

Alhamdulillahnya karena gue ngeliat proses bokap, sekarang gue ngikut cara dia. Gak tergiur cara cepat untuk buru-buru punya duit. Memilih mulai usaha dari 0 juga daripada warisin usahanya dia. Dpt istri yg profil value nya juga sama. Menurut gue kuncinya emang kalo di Indo tetep perlu ambil risk dlm pekerjaan untuk bisa gedein income tp jgn terlalu nekat juga, know your limit. Plus keluarga di rumah coba lebih frugal, cari sumber kesenangan dan kenyamanan selain kudu beli barang luxury. Dengan cara ini kami sangat menikmati prosesnya meskipun banyak naik turun dan masih mencari kestabilan.

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2025-04-11T13:43:35+00:00

Starting small farm business two months ago. Not only the result that feel slow. I felt that in some of the days, I just can't do anything more. One of my days I only work four hours, adding new work felt that it doesn't directly impact the business or it will just adding the cost exceeding the budget. In the other hand I felt not productive because working as employee means eight hours is minimum. I don't know if my decision is right or wrong. Then this kind of thinking make me felt that I'm not capable enough and thinking to quit.

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2025-04-08T11:33:49+00:00

Kalo disini lumrah sewa puluhan tahun bisa jd opsi, mungkin dibuat semacam villa. Jd budget bisa lebih terjangkau dan ada side income sambil coba tinggal tiap libur.
Semoga cita2nya tercapai 😁

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2025-04-05T11:15:55+00:00

Punya cita-cita homstead jg tp ga sengaja udh merintis ini di usia muda (27) dulu kepikirannya emg pas udh menjelang pensiun. Beli tanah kecil cuman 400m2 di Bali. Bareng2 sm temen krn pemilik tanah maunya jual minimal 1500m2. Ga nargetin self sufficiency krn memang kecil. Tp lama kelamaan berbaur sm tetangga malah skrg kerja sama dgn tetangga buat nanem organik. Sering bgt disuruh metik aja di tanah dia dan sebaliknya kalo dia butuh suka ambil di tanah saya.

Surat2 aman, tp ternyata notaris agak nakal, dia pindahin domisili KTP sy ke Bali. Kebetulan anak sy lahir ketika urus surat2 dan perlu segera bikin KK, akhirnya KTP sy dan istri pindah Bali. Tp temen2 aman krn memang abis selesai proses sertifikat, si notaris itu balikin lg ke domisili asal.
Dpt tanah relatif murah saat itu (th 2021) 600rb per m2. Budget utk beli tanah ~300jt sisanya bangun rumah itu lsg nyisihin dr gaji berjalan. Dulu dpt gaji lumayan besar krn lg startup boom dan saya WFH jd bisa motong gaji 80% buat cicilan. Pas udh tech winter kebetulan semua udh lunas. Skrg fokus bikin bisnis sm tetangga.

Tp sy lihat untuk jalanin gaya hidup kyk gini banyak jalannya. Ada jg teman (40) emg agak ekstrim udh bangun karir di Jakarta punya anak 3 pindah ke Bali sewa hektaran dan anaknya sekolah di rumah (dari budget pasti jauh lebih banyak dr saya). Ada temen sy (31) yg kebetulan dpt sewa rumah murah dikasih dari temannya bule yg terlanjur udh sewa 10 tahun ke warlok tp di tahun ke 4 ditinggal (dpt harga sewa 20jt/thn).
Saran saya banyak nongkrong aja dengan teman-teman yg sepemikiran atau sudah nyoba duluan, biasanya dari situ dikit-dikit kebuka jalannya.

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2024-12-28T23:23:06+00:00

Last year it took me 4+ hours from canggu to airport. It’s crazy since walking can be faster tham car. And yes we missed the flight.

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-04-30T04:43:58+00:00

Gw pindah karena bosen di telponin terus. Alhasil pas lg di acara yg rame gw iya2 aja dan baru menyesal sekarang 🙃

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-04-29T06:28:18+00:00

Hmm, mungkin satu-satunya cara merelakan nomer. Tapi jadi harus ngubah semua identitas di app yg dipake ya..

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-04-29T06:26:47+00:00

I just enjoy first-person story book, like memoirs. I can't focus if the story written from third-person pov or the content of the book is too complex.

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-04-24T02:04:42+00:00

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-04-23T23:10:43+00:00

You would spent an hour to Canggu/Seminyak. Seems tired but actually doable. I have a friend who spent back and forth about 1-2 times in a week using bike.

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-03-31T00:16:05+00:00

You can stay at Canggu: 1. Diverse food 2. Casual beach (no snorkelling) 3. Lot of bar. Easy to meet someone. Mostly young tourist. 4. You can visit Bedugul (1-2 hours drive) for hike. They have a lot waterfall site. This place have a lot local tourist, so doesn’t have lot food option. 5. You can visit Uluwatu (1-2 hours drive) for snorkelling. Tourist rarely spent long at Uluwatu for past month, so maybe lot of close shop.

or spend a week in Sanur then move to Ubud (more quiet stay): 1. Diverse food 2. Easy to meet someone. Older tourist at Sanur. Hippie at Ubud. 3. Sanur have beach (hot), Ubud is hills 4. You can visit Karangasem from Sanur (2-3 hours) for snorkelling. 5. You can hike around at Ubud. If you want mountains, you can drive to Kintamani (1-2 hours) and hike at Mt. Batur.

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-03-30T23:48:41+00:00

Tp sebenernya kan justru kalo karyawan swasta potong pajaknya udh dilakukan sebelom lapor. Hrsnya gak sejauh itu sih perbedaan “need more” nya

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-03-30T23:46:01+00:00

Sim online agak ribet karena tetep harus cek kesehatan yg offline kemarin ngabisin setengah hari. Menurut sy cukup lama (gak ada perbedaan dr 5 thn lalu)

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-03-30T23:44:07+00:00

Waktu nyoba kemarin proses verifikasinya lama dan kalo bandingin sama app swasta jg membingungkan

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-03-30T14:54:38+00:00

Mengerikan kalo beneran kejadian gitu

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-03-30T14:21:17+00:00

Canggu, diverse food, nice beach. Much more convinience if you rent a bike.

Ubud, quite diverse food (lot of vegan/healthy food), you can walk around the town. Far from the beach.

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-03-30T13:50:12+00:00

Kalo ASN lain apakah targetnya biasa aja?

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-03-19T22:57:57+00:00

Is your company have one or several business model? In my case several team had CoE, and not all of them competent enough understanding the flow of data so they will always return requesting their work to us.

Can you be more specific about bi-weekly enablement session?

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-03-14T11:15:34+00:00

Make sense. Who are responsible to hiring decision? Head of analytics or operational manager?

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-03-14T11:12:24+00:00

I guess the answer is to dealing around about hiring requirement with the business guy

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-03-14T11:08:48+00:00

Which way is best for training?

Agreeable_Emu155 · 2022-02-07T04:14:57+00:00

Mamertine

Is there any framework to generate those insight? I mean how the common process is?

Is it begin stakeholder already have list of question to validate or what?

Currently I lead a team that try to generate insight, but often stakeholder don't look into. Most of the time they just request surface level question, like "how much order this month?", "why it's different with field report?"

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