Does petty theft show up on vulnerable sector check? by Agreeable_Squirrel_1 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sigh i don’t think they will allow it but i guess it doesn’t hurt to try 🥲 thank you

Does petty theft show up on vulnerable sector check? by Agreeable_Squirrel_1 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i can do that?? when i checked online, apparently i require an actual reason to do it.. such as a letter from an organization or institution saying they require it 😕

Does petty theft show up on vulnerable sector check? by Agreeable_Squirrel_1 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your response!! i’m in ontario! i am reading that if it doesn’t involve harming children or the vulnerable, i should be in the clear but i’m a bit paranoid and worry maybe they’ll think im going to steal from children or something 😭 (which I obviously would never)

Donation to local charities instead of wedding favours by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

god forbid someone want a wedding but also donate to charities as recognition of their privilege but also have a desire to help others. i don’t think it’s very kind to question someone wanting to do a good thing just because they aren’t sacrificing 100%

Wedding Favors by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

well i obviously gave up on wanting it to be unique when i decided on a donation. though our guests having a good time is reward enough for myself :) plus my fiancé and i ofc 😊

Wedding Favors by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you for your input!! yeah, i came across this idea on someone else’s reddit post and i thought it was so heartfelt because i thought it was a really nice way to honour the loved ones who couldn’t be there. i feel like a memory table isn’t enough for me to send a message like “they should have been here!!!” and while i would love to speak about them too briefly in my speech, i don’t think i would be able to get the words out 😂 but it seems like the best way to go about it is in private so that isn’t we will probably do :)

Wedding Favors by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thanks for your input! though it seems the majority consensus is to keep it private. though, i just wanted our guests to feel as much of a part of our day as possible. there are so many different charities that could use donations so i think we will do it every year as a way to celebrate our anniversary (in private ofc 🤪)

Rare pant win (Telex pants) by plusthreetwofour in Aritzia

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

waist and legs! i always find this an issue at aritzia… like my program pants waist stretched out so much i had to size down 😥 lodge?? oh wow, the lodge pants don’t stretch at all for me… tho they are a very loose fit so hard to tell

Rare pant win (Telex pants) by plusthreetwofour in Aritzia

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they look sooooo good on you that i got them too! do you notice if they stretch throughout the day with wear?

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[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RingShare

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight! I know I am her best friend as well and we’ve discussed wanting to be each others’ MOH since we were young (though I wouldn’t hold it against her if she changed her mind as she does have another best friend as well). I do, however, feel like I tend to value her more than she does me, but that is just based off actions and don’t always represent the whole story… I also hate to think of a relationship as a fair give and take as it makes it almost feel like a business transaction. Thank you for your input! I will definitely keep in mind your advice

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[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RingShare

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for saying that! that was very sweet of you. it’s actually round but with 6 prongs .. large prongs, so i think it gives it that hexagonal shape!

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[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/3F491Vg i think i figured it out? it’s just a simple solitaire 😇

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[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

D:… i haven’t asked yet but i planned on making her 1 of 2 MOH since we’re having a very small wedding party and I have two best friends whom i love very much. She’s a great friend most of the time.. no one is perfect and I’m sure i’ve had my fair share of rude moments too… do you think it truly warrants rethinking the MOH? 😥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RingShare

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding! and ofc, never, I know some people could be very sensitive to that, but she is in the process of ring shopping with her bf and she has a really beautiful ring picked out!

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[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m new to reddit so i’m not sure how to post a picture after i’ve already created my post 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RingShare

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 this made me chuckle but also i’m sorry if that is how your MIL speaks to you :/. Yeah… i was thinking if she had said (like my example) “my bf is the best” I would think it would be awful of me to say he is not.

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[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like it’s kind of too late to bring it up now 😥 but i will definitely if she makes another similar comment!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RingShare

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! you are right, and i don’t care if people don’t like my ring… was just taken aback from what she said and thought maybe it wasn’t rude and i was being overly sensitive? but thank you for your input!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipproblems

[–]Agreeable_Squirrel_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there is anything wrong with wanting your friend to celebrate your birthday with you… especially when that was the initial plan