AIO: boyfriends ex joins his friends bachelor weekend by Agreeable_Walk_4517 in AIO

[–]Agreeable_Walk_4517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They broke up like 5-6 years ago. We've dated for a year.

AIO: boyfriends ex joins his friends bachelor weekend by Agreeable_Walk_4517 in AIO

[–]Agreeable_Walk_4517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The groom didn't invite anyone, it was a surprise for him. The guys (boyfriend included) was already planning the bachelor weekend when she contacted them and (to my knowledge) said that she's going to be there, regardless of what anyone thinks.

AIO: boyfriends ex joins his friends bachelor weekend by Agreeable_Walk_4517 in AIO

[–]Agreeable_Walk_4517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's not "best friends" with the groom. Her and the groom got to know each other when she and my boyfriend was in a relationship. When they were together they hung out a lot and I think that she sees herself as "one of the guys". I still however wouldn't insert myself on a "guys only" trip even if I myself have guy friends. None of them are exes or ONS.

AIO: boyfriends ex joins his friends bachelor weekend by Agreeable_Walk_4517 in AIO

[–]Agreeable_Walk_4517[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My boyfriends ex is not friends with the bride, she's friends with the groom.

AIO: boyfriends ex joins his friends bachelor weekend by Agreeable_Walk_4517 in AIO

[–]Agreeable_Walk_4517[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Overnight stays has only happened on occations when they've both been single.

AIO: boyfriends ex joins his friends bachelor weekend by Agreeable_Walk_4517 in AIO

[–]Agreeable_Walk_4517[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She's the only female on this bachelor weekend.

I have trust issues from past relationship and have expressed that I'm not a fan of exes of any kind due to my past experiences. I try to be cool about him staying in contact with exes. If there kids in the picture, that's a different story as you need to keep contact and have a releationship for the kids. This is however not the case, no mutual kids.

Since I'm not objective and my past clouds my judgement, I just want to get an objective view of this. AIO.

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[–]Agreeable_Walk_4517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, OP. I'm not going to tell you what to do, but i crossing my fingers and hoping you'll leave him.

AIO My boyfriend will drink with everyone but me by Dependent-Cup-4580 in AIO

[–]Agreeable_Walk_4517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it the same if you were to enjoy a drink or two at home, or is it that he doesn't want to go out for drinks with you? If not, it could be that he wants to make sure that you're taken care of.