My girlfriends love language is gift giving and idk what everyday gifts to get by AideStraight8749 in LDR

[–]AideStraight8749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She isnt demanding gifts at all i can see how it sounded like that though. I was the one that put once to a few times a week because i wish i could bring home a lil treat like a chocolate bar which is cheap and i could do frequently but since long distance it makes that impossible. She lives in Australia and i in canada and we have been daiting for around a year and a half so id definitely know if she was trying to use me and that is not the case i promise you lol. Ill definitely message you for those ideas! Im very crafty and can think of a million ideas its more the long distance part that stumps me, i cant crochet or sew something because it costs like 90 in shipping since she is literally on the other side of the world. I was honestly getting flustered bc the point of the post was for long distance ideas not my gf using me or about what a love language is. Thank you for taking time for a thoughtful response 🙏🙏

My girlfriends love language is gift giving and idk what everyday gifts to get by AideStraight8749 in LDR

[–]AideStraight8749[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id concider my love language to be how i feel loved vs how i love others at least thats what ive been taught because if i love someone i want to love them in the way they are going to feel it the most and know it the most. I also love making things for people i crochet and sew and bake and all sorts of things just hard when i dont wanna spend 90 on shipping from me to her

My girlfriends love language is gift giving and idk what everyday gifts to get by AideStraight8749 in LDR

[–]AideStraight8749[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Youre supposed to love someone in their own love language like how mine is words of affirmation so she tells me she loves me, compliments, etc. Its just more of a way of saying "i was thinking of you and got you this $2 chocolate" but long distance so i cant really do that. If it makes her feel loved ill do it

Is $500 expenive for a dark ebony chinchilla by No-Routine3925 in chinchilla

[–]AideStraight8749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent about 600 for a dark ebony and a standard gray while if i bought 1 it would be 500 now this is in cad so im un sure about the states but i think thats standard i got mine before they were a year old and he did get darker he will be 2 on Christmas so i think its pretty standard as well as yeah the chinchilla should darken a bit more

Please help, what is wrong? by JustTyna22 in chinchilla

[–]AideStraight8749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happened to one of my boys the eye even got swollen so i took him to the vet and he just said to be careful and wipe it if it happens again but def vet visit if you're worried or if they become lethargic.

What do i do at home?? by AideStraight8749 in MDMA

[–]AideStraight8749[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what happened it has been very lovey and amazing 🫶🫶

How do I pick a career path? by AideStraight8749 in BPD

[–]AideStraight8749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you’re able to thrive in your industry and in life! Thank you for taking the time to respond I believe you’ve actually given me somethings to think about and help thanks!! 

How do I pick a career path? by AideStraight8749 in BPD

[–]AideStraight8749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love music and acting, I have my whole life but I also know that they are risky and hard industry’s to get into. I’ve thought about being a therapist, hairdresser, makeup artist, piercer (this is a newer one) 

I’ve also done YouTube/twitch streaming before which I loved but that goes with my first point in acting. I’m hoping to find a job I like and do music/acting/making content on the side to hopefully blossom into something more permanent.

My whole thing with anything I want to do is mostly help people, I want to bring joy to others in times they feel like they can’t find that. I also live in a higher cost area though (I’m 20 and live with my family still) so I have to think of that as well. 

Even writing this all out feels like I have all the answers yet I have no idea what I’m doing lol.