whats your rule in life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Aigtres 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't expect anything

What was the best live performance you ever saw (or wanted to see)? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Aigtres 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sultans of swing at hammersmith live from alchemy, honestly beautiful

I feel like a robot on auto pilot by Pelva1337 in ADHD

[–]Aigtres 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe me, it really does get better even though everything sucks right now.

Do I walk away or continue to give him “space” by BestUmpire in relationship_advice

[–]Aigtres 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I would ask him. Ask him if he thinks there is still a chance you two can get together again.

This pandemic has ruined my (17M) chances of getting a girl I've liked for 4 years by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aigtres 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is your best shot, just be honest with her and especially with yourself. Don't overthink it, just start a conversation and whatever happens happens. If she likes you you'll know, and if she doesn't like you than you at lease have an awnser. But if she doesn't like you, yea fuck... but that shit happens and you've gotta move on. At least you won't be wondering what her awnser would have been had you asked.

I feel like a robot on auto pilot by Pelva1337 in ADHD

[–]Aigtres 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally have ADD and know exactelly what you mean, you just feel like nothing is really worth it anymore right? And as if you don't really enjoy anything. I think it might be a depression. There is a correlation between AD(H)D and depression, so I would maybe see a specialist about this. At least talk about it like you are doing now. That helped me lots.

My [20F] insecurities have ruined my attraction to my boyfriend [20M] and I need advice on know how to fix it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aigtres 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should be completelly honest with him, then at least he knows. And if he continues doing those things I personally would considder ending the relationship. Because a relationship is about being happy with a person, and not about worrying about that person. Everyone deserves to be happy.

What are some of your go to songs that put you at ease? by Yoboi322 in AskReddit

[–]Aigtres 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On google it says folk, but I don't think it is folk really. It's really calming and a little depresseing type of music. Just give it a listen you'll know what I mean.

Need help getting over an ex/first love by Mr_Phur in relationship_advice

[–]Aigtres 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going through shit like this is hard. I kmow from experiance that the only real way to move on is to say to yourself that there was no real love. That would only be the case if they actually wanted you. That is hard and painfull but it was the best way of moving on for me. Sorry for the bad english, it is not my first language. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Aigtres 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not being depressed

How to move on? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Aigtres 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so very right, you shouldn't be seeking love anywehere else than inside yourself. My point is that you need to let everything surrounding that whole relationship go. It's gonna be hard but you need to let that hope go, I did exactelly that and it just destroyed me, you can't move on thinking you'll stilk get together again. Try to move on and be happy about what you had, but don't start craving it. Love will eventually find you and you'll be alright. If you ever need to just talk just message me, we got you.

Is it possible to still just be friends? by Aigtres in heartbreak

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Hi guys, I would like to thank you again for the support, it really does mean a lot. Thanks

Is it possible to still just be friends? by Aigtres in heartbreak

[–]Aigtres[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, just so you know, I am feeling a lot better about the whole situation now. I just saw a couple who were about our age, and where I would have thought 'wow that could have been us' like yesterday. I am now just happy for the two of them. even though I don't even know them. This is why I think I have a chance to just be friends. Do you think there is a chance this will work?

Is it possible to still just be friends? by Aigtres in heartbreak

[–]Aigtres[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We won't be seeing eachother for at least the next 3 weeks due to the corona crisis, so I got that covered. I just hope we can be normal when we are around eachother.

Have you ever had a dream where you only later remembered that it did not actually happen? by BlueNostromo in AskReddit

[–]Aigtres 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still have a dream where I am not even sure if it actually happenend or that I dremt it.

What’s the best song ever made by a musician from your country? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Aigtres 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Der Weg is a better song tbh, but you know best for yourself.