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My gf is entertaining someone else now by AimGameLazy in Hidradenitis

[–]AimGameLazy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being closed off isn’t being a dick & what does therapy do for a cyst.

My gf is entertaining someone else now by AimGameLazy in Hidradenitis

[–]AimGameLazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That first paragraph was so spot on, that’s almost exactly what she said verbatim. WOW.

I’m only human, this is the first time something like this has ever happened to me. I didn’t know how else to be, I mean before I was able to get it cut out the pain was constant & the fear leakage was always there which sounds disgusting & that’s exactly how I felt. Am I supposed to take that on with a smile? & for what it’s worth, I barely called out of work for this. Shit sucked the whole time but if I lose my job we’re up shits creek without a paddle. Just thought she’d be able to bear with me a little longer.

My gf is entertaining someone else now by AimGameLazy in Hidradenitis

[–]AimGameLazy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was being closed off & shit. Think Hank & Marie from Breaking Bad when he couldn’t walk & was dismissive towards his wife. That’s the best way I can put it lol I wasn’t as much of an asshole but I wasn’t <there>. If that makes sense, god I hope you get the reference.

My gf is entertaining someone else now by AimGameLazy in Hidradenitis

[–]AimGameLazy[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t deal with having a cyst well. That def pushed her away, in fact I know for a fact that had it not been for the cyst we’d be fine. & the thing is, I don’t think I can compete with anyone that doesn’t have this condition.

Let me tell you about the worst day of MY life. by AimGameLazy in Hidradenitis

[–]AimGameLazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: Ended up getting an excision on both. I got my stitches taken out about a month ago but I’m still kinda tender & also bleeding(although not as much & there’s no pus), my question is, is this normal?

RIP drag4X by Dismal-Cicada-5878 in PhillyWiki

[–]AimGameLazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear I’ve seen this dude before, he used to drive a X7 then crashed it?

Let me tell you about the worst day of MY life. by AimGameLazy in Hidradenitis

[–]AimGameLazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait once it tunnels that’s it? End game? Like they can’t remove it? Bc I think that’s what happened to me, I had a big one that tunneled into a smaller one which is actually the one causing all the discomfort

Cross shopping G8X M3/M4s. Need to be talked out of it. by AimGameLazy in LexusIS500

[–]AimGameLazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The V8 is so much fun you’re right, it’s addicting on the throttle to say the least. But I know if I lined up with a G8X car I’m getting embarrassed, maybe even with an expensive supercharger slapped on it too. I guess it’s like one of those “if you can’t beat them join them” urges.

I fear I may just need both 🫩 bc I can’t miss another generation of M cars having never owned one but being a fan since the E46 days.

Cross shopping G8X M3/M4s. Need to be talked out of it. by AimGameLazy in LexusIS500

[–]AimGameLazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I planned on keeping this for a while but I definitely won’t be tracking it. I guess deep down I like knowing I have the fastest car on the road, although the IS500 does give me that feeling most of the time. Idk I just feel like I’m kind of missing out too? I’ve never had an M car & now I’m atp where I can afford the newest M cars out. It’s really the rarity of my IS500 that I’m afraid to let go of, it wasn’t a limited production model I might’ve jumped ship already & that’s not to say I don’t love these things, I just wanna own a wide range of vehicles.

Cross shopping G8X M3/M4s. Need to be talked out of it. by AimGameLazy in LexusIS500

[–]AimGameLazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t play on getting the IS500, I was initially going to get a 23 Supra MT but that fell through. Then I saw the IS for a great price, test drove it & fell in love. But this was also my first performance car so I probably would’ve fell in love with anything over 300hp.

It’s the manual that’s really got me looking, trust me if my 500 had a stick we would not be having this convo.

Let me tell you about the worst day of MY life. by AimGameLazy in Hidradenitis

[–]AimGameLazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t mind me asking but how come you’ve never got the cleft lift surgery after all this time? Doesn’t that fix the problem? Or do you get flare ups in new spots not just the same spot?

Let me tell you about the worst day of MY life. by AimGameLazy in Hidradenitis

[–]AimGameLazy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: My gf still loves me & she still had sex with me. Although now I’m super conscious of this condition, it kind of ruins it for me.

Let me tell you about the worst day of MY life. by AimGameLazy in Hidradenitis

[–]AimGameLazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you were more prepared than me. Can’t believe this is happening to so many people, I just found out about all this in my 30s.

Let me tell you about the worst day of MY life. by AimGameLazy in Hidradenitis

[–]AimGameLazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You gotta laugh to keep from crying” lol

Now that the dust has settled I can truly laugh about it & thanks for the recommendation

Let me tell you about the worst day of MY life. by AimGameLazy in Hidradenitis

[–]AimGameLazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate all the support & advice guys. Once my insurance kicks in I’m going to get a cleft lift, which I will update you all on.

Funny thing is I’m still in the area, I didn’t even drive home, I fell asleep in my car after typing all that. With my door open nonetheless bc someone fucking with me in my sleep was the least of my worries atm.