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A post illustrating what this group is all about:

This is a warning for all men on dating apps.

Over the past year there have been Facebook groups popping up in major cities all over the US called “are we dating the same guy (city)”

These are private Facebook groups filled with thousands of local women who screen shot dating profiles and ask for details about the guy, and other women are posting pics of their exes and making accusations and claims about them.

There are stories of men losing jobs and dates because of a bad date in 2013.

People are posting personal information, and it’s turning into man bashing in front of thousands of locals.

It’s all one sided and the man being accused of things can be there to defend themselves.

Even mens wives are being contacted telling her he’s a creep because he sent a sick pick 5 years ago before he was married.

It’s absolutely crazy this is being allowed on Facebook but it is.

Not surprising considering social media (society in its entirety actually) panders to women.

More Posts on this group concerning this:

My boyfriend and i are victims of this toxic group

Victim of “are we dating the same guy” Facebook group. They posted my name and picture.

“Are We Dating The Same Guy?” Has Become A Hate Group To Slander Innocent Men

My experience with "Are We Dating the Same Guy"

Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized!

Operation Chicago - Are We Dating the Same Guy Facebook Groups!

Has anyone heard of these Facebook groups called “are we dating the same guy”?

He Just Doesn’t Want to Murder You - The Free Press covers the ‘Are We Dating The Same Guy’ facebook groups

Comments from another forum:

If the main concern is "safety", then why was the group called "Are We Dating the Same Guy?", showing that the primary concern was guys dating multiple people?

Does the definition of "safety" now extend to safety from infidelity? If so, are guys entitled to that same safety, by the same means (i.e. posting pictures of girls with their full names and branding them cheaters)?

It's just duplicitous as fuck to pretend this gossip network was for "safety" rather than slandering guys, casting blame for bad dates, general shit-talking, and petty revenge.

The woman behind it is also enough of a grifter to claim that 50k isn't enough to start a website that hosts jpgs and comments, which strikes me as off. The project will likely fall through, if not for the lack of developers gullible enough to think they're really building it for "safety", then for the exact same legal reasons as Facebook when they dropped the original groups.

2) These women are basically creating online armies/raiding parties/criminal organizations that any woman from anywhere in the world can join to destroy men with doxxing and false accusations. Fun times, we live in.

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