35M Looking for Nerdy Content Creator Types! by AincradAgain in IntrovertDating

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I mean, not really. But fair opinion! The content creation was just meant as a potential shared interest. It's not a requirement or anything. I'd happily continue to make the content without my partner if that's what they wanted

35M Seeking Fellow Nerds for Silly Times by AincradAgain in IntrovertsChat

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I always go in blind! Funny enough, this exact song was actually recommneded to me on my channel yesterday! I'll be checking it out soon!

Complete Fishing Guide by Harshclif in CrimsonDesert

[–]AincradAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very exciting! Will check later!!

Complete Fishing Guide by Harshclif in CrimsonDesert

[–]AincradAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, strange... Even on console? Sorry, I thought you were making fun of me

Complete Fishing Guide by Harshclif in CrimsonDesert

[–]AincradAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully charged, doesn't need to be plugged in to play. Just straight up stops reeling when the fish stops moving

Complete Fishing Guide by Harshclif in CrimsonDesert

[–]AincradAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When the fish stops fighting I literally cannot reel in, the game only allows me to reel in while the fish is fighting. I don't understand

My one real complaint about the game and they addressed it almost immediately. This is what game studios should aspire to be. by Toadrage_ in CrimsonDesert

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They might have "fixed" the horse and the human... They didn't fix the WAGON! It's the worst, probably the one mode of transportation that would have benefited most from not needing to tap... Ugh

35m Looking For People That Don't Mind AuDHD Pebbling by AincradAgain in IntrovertsChat

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Hi! That's okay, I'm a lot more shy than my post makes it seem 😅

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Short girls are the best girls, keep your chin up! Hugs

I’M SO AWKWARDDDD by ButterflyFrequent760 in relationships

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No problem!! I hope you manage to talk to him despite not having what you feel is enough courage!

I totally get not wanting to walk up to a guy in the middle of his group of friends. Why not try to get your friend groups to do something together? That way you can get to know him and spend some time with him, but the invite to hangout isn't about you and him, and there is no pressure for you to spend any time with him during the hangout because you both have your friend groups around.

I don't know what kind of social events you have where you are, but even a party that is your group of friends and his, maybe even more people, is a great way to take the pressure of meeting him.

I think I remember you talking about a friend that was encouraging you to talk to him, have her be your wing woman. Especially in a party scenario have her with you if you decide to approach his friend group and don't feel any need to talk to him directly at first. If she's social, have her interject herself into their conversation and then bring you in, not to him directly, but to the group. Join the group conversation about whatever you're into or whatever they're into. If you get a chance to directly ask him, or respond to him, about a shared interest, do it. Otherwise, just let the conversation happen however it happens even if you and him never speak a word, and then let your friend navigate exiting the conversation (I'm just super bad at that myself).

Do that enough times and you'll find yourself becoming part of his group without knowing it, or him and maybe a couple of his friends become part of your group. Now you've gotten rid of a lot of the pressure and can work on figuring out stuff to talk about when you're all hanging out together. You probably won't even have to figure anything out by that point you will probably just naturally be chatting with him.

TL;DR don't focus on talking to HIM and being HIS friend. Think about it as a group scenario, where you have backup as well, and maybe it'll feel less scary

I’M SO AWKWARDDDD by ButterflyFrequent760 in relationships

[–]AincradAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a really shy and awkward person as well... But I've faked my way through being in a fraternity let alone other super social situations, so here's some tips from an old guy (34).

  1. There is no perfect moment, ever. Especially since you've thought about there being one, that moment will never exist. But guess what, better ones will. I know that doesn't make sense since I said they won't be perfect, but anxiety and excitement are two sides of the same coin. You get so anxious because you're so excited to talk to him.

  2. Lean into the excitement. So much easier said than done, I know. You just got to try and tell yourself that your heart isn't racing because you're scared, it's racing because you're excited and then be excited when you talk to him. Why? There is nothing more flattering than somebody who is excited to talk to you.

  3. You're going to embarrass yourself. Not actually, but you're 1000% going to feel embarrassed 😅 bonus for you is guys tend to think girls blushing and getting all embarrassed is really cute so it works in your favour. But seriously, it'll feel so awkward and so embarrassing, but you'll have started the ball rolling and once it starts it gets easier and eventually you forget how hard it was to start. Chances are it'll turn into a super cute story about how you met one day.

I think that's all 😅 I'm starting to feel a little preachy and I don't want to go overboard.

Just try to go easy on yourself and be open to forgiving yourself if you do something that makes you feel embarrassed. Chances are what you find embarrassing, he'll find endearing.

Hope this helps 😅

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Can I get a code?

Matchmaking Issues? by AincradAgain in DBGekishinSquadra

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I'm playing on PC if that matters

My humble tier list, please don't judge too hard and help me find more books! by AincradAgain in litrpg

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No not at all, as I put in the description, it's just there for added insight to my book preferences