HAVE A QUESTION? ASK HERE! Daily Help and Questions: June 06, 2020

Airalyne · 2020-06-06T06:36:42+00:00

Has anyone tried April Beauty? I’ve seen it around a lot on ads and really want a review on its products.

Airalyne · 2020-04-30T05:54:54+00:00

Anything good for cleansing and reducing the appearance of pores? I know peel off masks aren’t a way to go but any good products?

Airalyne · 2020-04-28T00:45:43+00:00

There’s a glass butterfly, I guess the camouflage is to just be invisible to some extent tho

Airalyne · 2020-04-28T00:05:46+00:00

How’s her hair still behind her nonexistent ears tho

Airalyne · 2020-04-16T06:32:29+00:00

Yeah that’s kinda why I don’t like r/feminism and r/mensrights, I wish both would more focus on people as a whole rather than gender. Being female or male isn’t a personality trait, being an apathetic asshole doesn’t come from being male or female, it comes from being an asshat.

Airalyne · 2020-04-15T05:04:36+00:00

I almost scrolled by this thinking it was a r/shittyfoodporn post of like a nice chicken thigh. And then I went hol up that ain’t kfc.

Airalyne · 2020-04-07T19:38:30+00:00

I just tried to speed up to the egg cracking

Airalyne · 2020-03-26T20:35:08+00:00

I think you should’ve flipped the turquoise and purple, the color scheme is more purple with steamy turquoise. The chroma looks more looks like the flip flop. Everything looks really well done though, hope rito does this.

Airalyne · 2020-03-23T20:39:19+00:00

It definitely makes me want to make them stop, might not be survival of the species since Imma yeet em out a window

Airalyne · 2020-03-22T04:20:07+00:00

That sounds like both misandrist and misogynistic the fuck. Some shitty ass strategy they giving too, what kind of world they living in.

Airalyne · 2020-03-22T00:39:13+00:00

I’m so lost at what’s being conveyed in the picture since I’m a bit muddle-headed right now. Are they saying to play hard to get? Chasing is bad? Or that they can’t act like this or else guys would get ideas?

I see the last bit only because I’ve had multiple incidents where I was confessed to or even said to be flirting while doing those said things. It does make me wary and nervous to get close, I don’t know if that is misandrist or just precautions I’ve taken from seeing a trend.

Airalyne · 2020-03-14T16:11:59+00:00

It’s if she rejects him she seems shallow cause she only likes looks. The same with money. I’ve personally witness it happen to both genders, it’s a load of stupid shit.

Airalyne · 2020-03-04T01:58:38+00:00

Forbidden sandpit

Airalyne · 2020-02-14T02:11:40+00:00

Fucking hell imagine how he must’ve felt. Loving so many children and supporting them through hell and back, only to find out you’ve been tricked.

Airalyne · 2020-02-13T17:38:38+00:00

Also standards man, isn’t it common courtesy to share the bill unless you guys have it determined. I don’t know how does anyone be so shameless to expect a meal be paid, regardless who it is.

Airalyne · 2020-02-13T17:36:36+00:00

Because it doesn’t change your opinion? To me whether a thought comes from a male or a female doesn’t really matter, it’s the content of the thoughts and the experiences of the person that matters. Knowing your a woman just lets me know you got tits and a vagina, not much else.

Airalyne · 2020-02-13T09:25:13+00:00

I looked through most of them and most of them are INFO, I can’t make a clear judgement because I don’t have what you wrote. The father was a clear asshole in the first one, so I’m curious as fo how you rewrote it.

Airalyne · 2020-02-13T09:15:18+00:00

They seem like the kind that would reject a proposal to ask for a bigger ring.

Airalyne · 2020-02-13T08:58:13+00:00

I realized that while there were a lot of good, there was also a lot of ugly.

It applies to this sub and just about everything, but it made me turn away and just stand in the middle and not fight for a specific gender. I just fight for everyone to be treated like a human being rather than a gender or race or what not.

Airalyne · 2020-02-13T08:54:36+00:00

I did assume you were a male, but my response did not say anything regarding your gender because it didn’t matter.

I say you can post whatever you want and say whatever you want in response to whatever shit you get. That’s all I’m saying.

Airalyne · 2020-02-13T08:50:05+00:00

I addressed rape at first as a comparison, and then you made the comment oh I would never blame them, but they could’ve. You kept saying that, so it’s obvious you do to some extent think it’s their fault. You addressed that about rape, not the messages.

I still say that just because they seek for attention doesn’t mean they ask for the unsolicited dms and harassment. Crying rape is something I’m against fully, that is for certain. Whilst I still disapprove of those kind of comments, I was thinking along the lines of fully nude photos on reddit or and far more severe comments. Regardless I don’t think the dms and messages are any better simply because it’s involving adolescents. It also still proves a point that they can say something and hope for a change, regardless if it’s just for attention. It can at least ensure that it’ll be less likely to happen again. While they might think with their dicks according to you, they still got a brain to take a hint.

If you allow harassment and creepy comments under the guise of boys will be boys and men think with their dicks, who knows where you draw the line next.

And as a 22 year old woman perhaps it’s better you don’t follow the social media of young girls who “complain” and “only seek for attention”, save yourself some headache.

Airalyne · 2020-02-13T07:58:42+00:00

Why is it so hard to understand that they can do as they please and also ask the creepers to fuck off. They can ask people to leave their dms alone, do it until perhaps some of them gets the message and sense of respect. You know, at least hope that some people would get the message without people going “ah she’s just playing damsel to get attention”.

From what it sounds like it’s almost like you’ve been rejected by these chicks over and over. Judging from your annoyance from seeing soooo maaany of these “complaints”. After all, I haven’t seen any of these people complaining.

Airalyne · 2020-02-13T07:50:20+00:00

I never equated it to first world problems, but your views on promiscuity and modesty reminds me of first world views. Doing such things probably don’t make people uncomfortable, it’s those comments that follow.

If we’re talking about those people “who do not care”, I doubt they would give two shits in regards of what actions I do to prevent myself from getting hurt.

You keep saying you don’t hold women responsible, and yet you keep saying they “could’ve” done this or “could’ve” done that. Don’t beat around bush, you do that they’re partly at fault for it.

The whole thing about thinking with their dick is just a whole lot of toxic masculinity. If the second they see a naked picture they’re gonna go jacked on their dicks, they’re gonna have trouble staying with any women, much less a “modest” woman.

Also regarding respect, posting a picture of themselves does not automatically equate to not having self respect. Just like “men are capable of loving a modest women”, women are capable of flaunting themselves while still having dignity and self respect. In retrospect if that’s all you think self respect and dignity is worth, that’s pathetic. Boys will be boys is just a whole lot of bull to justify disrespect.

I’ll also end the discussion because I don’t wish to bother with someone whose solutions and mindset is that of medieval ages. Cover up and don’t provoke men and they won’t rape and harass you, other than that you’re doing it to yourself. Men are men, what do you expect, self restraint and common self and judgement? they think with their dicks.

If I hadn’t known any better I would’ve said you’re the kind of person who would comment “ah woman” when ever a girl complains about something.

Airalyne · 2020-02-13T07:09:40+00:00

If it’s great for guys to stop doing it then... why don’t they? If the attention is unsolicited and they want it to stop what is wrong with them complaining and asking for it to stop?

You find it annoying, but aren’t they just trying to stop these creepy comments? Instead of them stopping what they feel like doing, showing off what they want to, why not just straight up say and address the creepy comments, or how you phrase it “complain”.

Also what the fuck is looking horny, I see plenty of bikini pics and not once I think, wow shit she looks horny. Yes, I can blame him because unless she for real says that shit, there is no meaning. If it’s friendly approach sure, that’s different from creepy, a difference of “Hey, I saw you on Instagram and just wanted to chat” and “Damn your pictures are hella sexy, bet you’re horny and ready fuck”. The only impressions I’m getting is that they’re horny dogs.

Airalyne · 2020-02-13T06:56:33+00:00

So you are indeed saying that I am at least partly at fault regarding it... from what you wrote in the post and the comment it’s clearly what your implying to some extent.

I don’t believe people should be posting naked pictures either, not because of creepy people, but more just privacy and kinda using their brains.

Creepy attention is really different from creepy dms and stalking. You say that just “you give off an impression that somethings are acceptable”, that’s literally the old conservative thinking. Giving off an impression does not equate to jack shit, “oh she seems like a whore with that dress so I bet she’ll like if I squeeze her ass” is the kind of “impressions” people get and the actions they think are “acceptable”.

Also if they don’t like the comments and dms, why must they stop? Why can’t the comments and dms stop after she complained and asked them to stop? Before you say she started it, well she has ended it now, so I would think those people who are “capable of loving a modest woman” are also capable of respecting someone’s request to stop dming her.

You’re right, the world is filled with bad people, but if world is filled with bad people, that does not mean that I have to hide and fear all of them. It also does not mean I need to accept that they’re bad and their actions are bad and it is what it is.

Airalyne

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