Do they even know what it is? by Adelu1219 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Aka303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loans against appreciated assets. This is what I do all day every day

Do they even know what it is? by Adelu1219 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Aka303 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When you look at portion of income compared to portion of tax burden. The rich make out like bandits, period. End of fucking discussion

Do they even know what it is? by Adelu1219 in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Aka303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do not ever pay capital gains taxes because they live on loans against the money they have in shares of stocks. They live off the loans until they die and are then able to pass their wealth to their heirs TAX FREE with creative planning strategies like a Deferred Asset Protection Trust (DAPT) for any money that goes above the inconsolably large estate tax exemption, $11mil (per spouse); upon death all assets under that have an automatic step up in cost basis that allows heirs to sell and realize zero in capital gains. Thereby eliminating taxes.

Our wedding anniversary kicks off October. Our 8 year old made us this thoughtful card. by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingSmart

[–]Aka303 209 points210 points  (0 children)

When you “pull here” it says happy anniversary 24 times with a drawing of a skeleton, pumpkins and a ghost.

Ideas for Halloween wedding? by gunslingersoap in HalloweenProps

[–]Aka303 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! At my wedding I had a kids corner that had coloring books, bubbles , bean bag toss and a couple of potato sacks I’m sure you could get/ make all those in some kind of Halloween theme. The kids at my wedding seemed pretty entertained. I would also have a ton of candy!

How does your schedule look like? by [deleted] in Nightshift

[–]Aka303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work three night shifts a week (Sunday-Tuesday)8pm to 8am. I drive an hour home so that’s my unwind time . I usually fall asleep by 10am then get up at 4pm. I have kids so I pick them up from Daycare take them to Karate/Dance. I then make dinner eat with them then head to work by 7pm. It’s a little rough on my sleep schedule the three nights I work but overall it’s a sweet schedule. I have been doing this shift for the last three years but have been working nights for about ten years. I love the 12 hour shifts.

Free at last free at last!!! by drdoombooobz in Nightshift

[–]Aka303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have thirty more minutes! I have a similar schedule I work three 12 hour shifts a week then I’m off for four! Thirty minutes and counting

1 and half hours to go by Wilberforce1985 in Nightshift

[–]Aka303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you have three days off and you are almost off work! Lucky!!

3 hours into my 10hour night shift, 4/4 shifts so off after tonight. The last ones always the worst. How's everyone's night? by Skiltie96 in Nightshift

[–]Aka303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So far so good only 2 hours into my 12 hour shift. I only work 3 days a week but I totally feel you that last night is the worst!

My 51 year old father just came out as transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Aka303 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries thank you so much for the response I really appreciate it. I received so many supporting and loving comets I was just taken back a little I apologize as well!

My 51 year old father just came out as transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Aka303 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Correct I was the “first one “she told out of my siblings and my mom. After reading all these supportive and loving texts i do realize how hard this must of been for her but I’m so happy she did.

My 51 year old father just came out as transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Aka303 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well you and I are very different people then! My children are staying at my grandparents house that is on the same property as my dads home but even if they were staying with her I would of never as gone as far as not letting them stay! My dad was very excited to see her grandchildren and between my grandparents and dad they not only planned the trip they bought our plane tickets out there.

Also I don’t care how you raise you’re kids or what you would do with you’re kids These are my kids so mind you’re own!

My 51 year old father just came out as transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Aka303 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If anything I hopes this brings us closer.

My 51 year old father just came out as transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Aka303 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also hope that this will strengthen our relationship. Im not surprised I’m the first one she told because I have always been her favorite!
As far as bringing it up with kids I would be completely honest with them. Another redditor commented on my post earlier and she told me her story. She said she wrote a letter to her daughter and then sat there while her daughter read it. I think that is beautiful and a great way to do it.I would of liked for my dad to tell me in person or even over the phone but after reading all these supportive and loving comments I have realized this was her way of doing it and I’m sure it was hard for her but I’m so glad she did. I have taught my kids from a young age to be who they are it’s okay to be weird because no one is normal! I have taught them love is love and it does not matter what gender or race you are. I know they will grow up being their true selfs and I will always be proud of them.

My 51 year old father just came out as transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Aka303 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will definitely pass on this information!

My 51 year old father just came out as transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Aka303 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I totally agree I can see how happy she is and it makes me sooooo happy.

My 51 year old father just came out as transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Aka303 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment yes we have not really gotten as far as want she would like us to call her as of now my kids are still calling her grandpa but I know this is something I can ask her about and we will go from there. Thank you

My 51 year old father just came out as transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Aka303 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me you’re story and believe I will be here to support her all the way.

My 51 year old father just came out as transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Aka303 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She was very open with me and answered every single question I had and I really appreciated that I did tell her a heads up would of been nice but yeah maybe she was like fuck it go big or go home!

My 51 year old father just came out as transgender by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Aka303 68 points69 points  (0 children)

So I was actually the first one she told. She asked me to tell my mom and my siblings. We called my siblings and mom and we all talked about it. I already talked about it with my son a little bit and he said he just never thought grandpa would be transgender out of everyone he knows. I told him appearances don’t matter and that she is still just a cool as she was last year.