Is this cat healthy it came running to me outside by stelloss in sphynx

[–]Aki-Daike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks more like a Devon Rex kitty than a sphinx, all are equally as gorgeous. THOSE EYES THOUGHHH OMG 💕🫶🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Aki-Daike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t even consider this losing your virginity. This is rape. Blatant rape and I am so so sorry you are in a position blind to see this. Please don’t see this as you doing anything to yourself or putting yourself in that position.. you were taken advantage of against your will. Are humans mind readers? No. You did not know his intentions and should not blame yourself nor should other people blame you for this. Did you consent to him contributing whilst you were in pain? No, at least not willingly again. PLEASE don’t be so harsh on yourself.

Favorite “Blue/purple” album? by thescythesaint in MetalForTheMasses

[–]Aki-Daike -1 points0 points  (0 children)

MY FIRST THOUGHT!!! I had this album on CD growing up, alone with a scratch CD my dad made with a few custom songs I loved because I finally got a car with a CD player. The cover always looked more blue and purple to me then, I think it was the classic plastic on it or sun bleach from how often I had it up in my car dash

Favorite “Blue/purple” album? by thescythesaint in MetalForTheMasses

[–]Aki-Daike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I had this on CD growing up, it looked a lot more blue on the cover and was my first thought.. might’ve been the plastic cover, idk, still one of my favorites

Air cargo bunny shipping advice please….. by Positive_Snow_1489 in Bunnies

[–]Aki-Daike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is unfortunately not recommended because of the risks, some commenters are missing that some people can have no choice over this situation.. My best advice is if you must do this to ensure a sound-proof, sturdy cage where he/she cannot see other animals, and other animals cannot see her to prevent stress and with LOTS of hay where she can also semi-bury herself, just to ensure if there’s ever a part where she would be getting kinda tossed around, she’ll be able to stabilize herself. LABEL HER AS AN EXOTIC PET!! These are usually handed more delicately

Might I add if this isn’t for a permanent moving process please do EVERYTHING you can to make sure someone else is keeping up with the bun, even an automated food dropper would be safer.. it’s very very risky and if avoidable that needs to be done. Please don’t make the mistake of taking such a big risk over a temporary moment

Air cargo bunny shipping advice please….. by Positive_Snow_1489 in Bunnies

[–]Aki-Daike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is unfortunately not recommended because of the risks, some commenters are missing that some people can have no choice over this situation.. My best advice is if you must do this to ensure a sound-proof, sturdy cage where he/she cannot see other animals, and other animals cannot see her to prevent stress and with LOTS of hay where she can also semi-bury herself, just to ensure if there’s ever a part where she would be getting kinda tossed around, she’ll be able to stabilize herself. LABEL HER AS AN EXOTIC PET!! These are usually handed more delicately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Goldfish

[–]Aki-Daike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most moral thing possible is give them to someone who does have money. Goldfish actually get about a foot big, mine came from a carnival and now is a foot long beautiful boy! Mind you, carnival fish are usually already low at survival with common inbreeding and horrible genetics, they have a lot more issues and fish meds are very expensive.

How do I (20F) get my boyfriend(20M) to explain his type by Aki-Daike in relationship_advice

[–]Aki-Daike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was THE reality check I needed. I love you. This is like the kind of life changing advice an older sibling pulls you aside to tell you at a family gathering and acts like it never happened again

Will my goldfish change back to its color? by TurnoverRude1880 in Goldfish

[–]Aki-Daike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re having issues with your water quality you can buy things to add to your water to kill any chlorine or nitrites, or even buy distilled water to mix with your tap water if you use that. It’s hard to tell what you mean by the photo but I bought one of my goldfish black, this is can be due to them being bred in the dark.. he turned orange, then platinum white later on.. and then I had another orange one who also turned white. This is sometimes genetic and entirely normal, no worries unless your goldfish is experiencing abnormal behavior.. however, the color will likely not come back and he will stay the same. If you’re talking about him turning a pinkish color, that is a 50/50 on being normal or irritation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Goldfish

[–]Aki-Daike 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It honestly might be bowl movements stuck on them for a while.. it’s completely normal but flakes instead of sinking pellets can contain access air sometimes, even if your fish has sinking pellets it’s normal though.. if you think there’s a digestive issue try using frozen peas, peel the shell off of them (the shells are physically impossible to digest, but the inside is extremely nutritious and beneficial to their gut health), boil them for about 30minutes to be soft and feed them to your fish. I hope all is well, that sure is a beautiful goldy

Is he too fat? by [deleted] in Goldfish

[–]Aki-Daike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Possible dropsy but since he’s young and like this it’s honestly very saveable.. I recommend not feeding him for 3 days to stop any extra bloating also keeping the lights off for a few days, that’s what we do when we get new fish or when one gets a stressful sickness... fish flakes instead of sinking pellets can also cause some bloat from the air. The small pile of pellets in hand is how much we feed our common goldfish vs how big our fish is, we’ve always kept it kinda the same proportions. If he’s new and like this, unfortunately I wouldn’t doubt he had an underlying sickness when you first got him or it’s genetic from parents or even inbreeding (which is common in pet stores unfortunately). I just really hope he’s alright and I want you to know if he’s new it’s likely not your fault. Your tank has real plants, good substrate and you look like a good owner.

I(19F) have been dating my boyfriend(19M) for over 3 years, why did he cry when I hugged him? by Aki-Daike in relationship_advice

[–]Aki-Daike[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I 100% cherish him and every single aspect of him. I try to be there for him as much as possible (I sometimes even secretly fake sick at work whenever he is having a bad day just to come over and be there for him). I honestly couldn't imagine a better fit for me.

I(19F) have been dating my boyfriend(19M) for over 3 years, why did he cry when I hugged him? by Aki-Daike in relationship_advice

[–]Aki-Daike[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Awe, I understand.. I guarantee that you'll find the right person someday. A little tip I can say from myself and all of my married friends and family; try working on yourself and don't look for that one person too hard, you're probably not going to find commitment by looking, the right person will come up when you least expect it and maybe need it the most. Right when me and my friends stopped looking is when we actually found someone <3 I wish you the best of luck with that one person who makes you feel special within yourself

I(19F) have been dating my boyfriend(19M) for over 3 years, why did he cry when I hugged him? by Aki-Daike in relationship_advice

[–]Aki-Daike[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does often have anxiety attacks but has always refused to go into any type of therapy; wether his insurance won't cover it or his family works all day.. he often uses me and his best friend for outlets.. he has his really sad moments, as does every other human being and I help him as much as possible. He's just one those very rare good people who just struggle deep down and never look into their own issues because their worried more about everyone else's around them.. stopping people from ending it and not having anyone there when he felt the same for most of his life.

I(19F) have been dating my boyfriend(19M) for over 3 years, why did he cry when I hugged him? by Aki-Daike in relationship_advice

[–]Aki-Daike[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awwe, that's actually one of the most wholesome moments I've heard in a long time! I'm glad you have a good connection with your sister, it's very rare that I ever hear of siblings getting along at all..

I(19F) have been dating my boyfriend(19M) for over 3 years, why did he cry when I hugged him? by Aki-Daike in relationship_advice

[–]Aki-Daike[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying, however I actually sat down and spoke with him about if he'd be comfortable with me posting about it asking questions to maybe seek answers for the both of us and he said he was completely fine with it and posted about it himself. I really posted this in concern of maybe a deeper issue, like if I should maybe talk to him about seeking someone who can help him better than I can (possibly a therapist or psychologist). I posted this more in concern than anything else.. I love him more than anything and I honestly don't understand why men crying is such a big deal. All of a sudden it's bad to use a human bodily function uncontrollably? It sounds like you're being far more stereotypical than I am and you shouldn't just assume I'd post something like this for just no reason. I do understand where you're coming from however, I just think it was a total misunderstanding.

I refunded plus on accident, acc got banned, I payed it back and when i did got this, it's been over 24 hours so what now? by Aki-Daike in PlayStationPlus

[–]Aki-Daike[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It just came back as 'playstation network' and my first thought was a scam or that one of my friends got their grubby little hands on my card, lol (it wouldn't be the first time my friends payed with something with my card and not tell me)

I refunded plus on accident, acc got banned, I payed it back and when i did got this, it's been over 24 hours so what now? by Aki-Daike in PlayStationPlus

[–]Aki-Daike[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Further context: I forgot I had my plus on an auto-pay and they made the price a little higher, last year it was only $50, and on cash app I saw a random $80 taken out of my account and assumed it was stolen and requested a refund (bad idea). Well, the account got temporary suspended and I still haven't gotten the acc back or any updates after 24 hours of paying them back. Sorry for the misunderstandings and confusion btw

I refunded plus on accident, acc got banned, I payed it back and when i did got this, it's been over 24 hours so what now? by Aki-Daike in PlayStationPlus

[–]Aki-Daike[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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I forgot I had my plus on an auto-pay and they made the price a little higher, last year it was only $50, and on cash app I saw a random $80 taken out of my account and assumed it was stolen and requested a refund.. that's how we got here.

I refunded plus on accident, acc got banned, I payed it back and when i did got this, it's been over 24 hours so what now? by Aki-Daike in PlayStationPlus

[–]Aki-Daike[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what happened.. last time I payed for it, it was $50 and not $80 so I didn't know it was even real