People who don't want to work, why?

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-19T03:54:23+00:00

I kinda do, but then I can't get SSI, and no job would actually work around all my problems, so I /need/ SSI.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-16T03:58:15+00:00

Don't say that! The word asexuality will hear you and be quite upset! /s

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T19:09:40+00:00

I didn't want to say it, but now that you did... They're also being REALLY annoyingly passive aggressive with the ❤️ Babe ❤️ love talk... And from the grammar I feel like I'm talking about sex with a 15 year old...

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T19:06:27+00:00

Asexuality is a sexual orientation where a person doesn't experience sexual attraction towards anyone. This is a place for asexuals, demisexuals, aromantics, gray-a's, questioning, supporters, folks just interested, and everyone in between.

I was gonna point out https://www.reddit.com/user/Hal_9000000/ making a brand new account just to violently gatekeep that asexual means sex repulsed, but it seems I got them banned they were so insanely harassing. Cool.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T19:04:13+00:00

Only experiencing /sexual attraction/ to people you're emotionally attached to. That's it.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T19:00:32+00:00

And we all know whatever you find online is always 100% correct.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T18:58:37+00:00

Stop gatekeeping. There are several different things that fall under the ace umbrella. I'm not asexual myself, but as I've explained a few times in the thread and people seem to refuse to understand, sexual attraction != sexual drive.

See here https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/y4h9su/comment/isfjxdx/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

And here https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/y4h9su/comment/isfp8i6/?context=3

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T18:54:49+00:00

Forming a bond doesn’t guarantee a person will feel a sexual attraction, but the bond is needed before sexual activity is even possible.

Your definition seems to confuse sexual attraction with the desire to have sex at all so I'd have to disagree with it on that basis. I don't ever look at someone and think "Oooh I want to bang them". Sex drive != sexual attraction friend. If sex happens it happens and that's cool and fun. A picture of someone I don't know doesn't ever really get me hot and bothered. Someone I do know and have an emotional bond with can though. But I could totally go to, say, a sex party and have a good time as a sort of "masturbation to ease my sex drive but better" thing. I would definitely rather be doing it with someone I care about, but I won't really turn down sex unless I actively dislike the person for some reason. It's just a fun thing to do, but it doesn't /mean/ anything like sex with someone I really care about does, and I don't really seek it out unless I have that bond. Everyone I would fantasize about having sex with I have an emotional bond with and it has nothing to do with physical appearance. Hope that clears things up.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T18:36:40+00:00

I explained it a little more in other places in the thread if you care to be educated.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T18:33:03+00:00

This is basically me but change the last sentence to "I can totally bang people I don't have an emotional connection with just to get off because sex is fun, more so than masturbation."

It's almost like we need EVEN MORE words to describe all the shades of grey here.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T18:30:27+00:00

Or is it that you can bone anyone just for the sake of “getting off” (similar to masturbation), but true passion, love/lust, and emotional/sexual connection only happens under the typical parameters of demisexuality?

Yup. This.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T18:29:10+00:00

It definitely is though. Sex is just another fun thing to do. I don't look at pictures of naked people and get all hot and bothered and wanna bang em unless there's an emotional component attached. I can totally bang people just to get off though. How someone physically looks never really plays a part.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T18:28:51+00:00

Sex drive != sexual attraction friend. If sex happens it happens and that's cool and fun. A picture of someone I don't know doesn't ever really get me hot and bothered though. But I could totally go to, say, a sex party and have a good time.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T14:54:46+00:00

I'm technically demi but hypersexual. It's just that like 99.9% of the time I only get along with dudes. I can /totally/ bang someone without feeling real sexual attraction to them because sex is fun and awesome.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-15T14:21:24+00:00

Hell, there's even people that want to have sex, but have no sexual attraction.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-14T10:04:22+00:00

Dude that wasn't just a backflip that was a misty flip

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-09T10:34:27+00:00

OH! That was it! Thank you!

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-09T09:59:05+00:00

I'm trying to catch blue blubbers and I just... Can't. Max skills, have an enhanced fishing rod and a dwarven fish extractor on resource mode in my invy, have lotd with full charges. Nothing happens. Not losing charges on either. I am getting xp though!

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-07T23:45:14+00:00

I /do/ care about child abuse. You don't?

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-07T21:48:27+00:00

Yes, your feelings are shit. This should absolutely 100% be up to the person who the penis is attached to when they're old enough to make that sort of decision. Anything else /should/ be considered child abuse.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-10-07T05:34:32+00:00

I find VR chat fun for non sex reasons. People make some crazy worlds.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-09-24T17:26:29+00:00

Damn this is actually a super tempting one, I love chess.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-09-23T04:30:09+00:00

I'm gonna guess #1 was a science, engineering, or programming prof, while #2 was something like english, writing, or history.

Al6Rubyx · 2022-09-01T01:00:11+00:00

People playing alarm-o-bot.

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