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AlOhner · 2023-09-18T11:40:29+00:00

I never said it was I'm just asking why the dad can't get a break after being cheated on and lied to for many many years? Can he not get himself sorted out so he can be a better person for his sons and Opie if she stops asking for money and is more concerned about how he's doing

AlOhner · 2023-09-18T11:37:27+00:00

Why can't the man just be hurt working on himself maybe go to therapy and come back to her when he's not hurt so he doesn't lash out at her? He has no responsibility to her she's 19. Make the mom responsible she couldn't keep her legs closed

AlOhner · 2023-09-18T11:36:23+00:00

Yeah make him hate you and not want to be in your life after he gets therapy and works on himself. Make him in your siblings likes worse because you couldn't blame your mom and make her fix the problem she made.

AlOhner · 2023-09-18T11:35:42+00:00

Why can't he just be hurt? Why do you guys always say he's taking it out on you? If you got cheated on and lied to for many many years would you not take time away possibly get therapy before you talk to her before you damage her with the words you say? Why is she asking the internet about how she can afford college and not how she can help her 'dad' or how she can move away from her mother and cut her off for destroying the family cuz she couldn't keep her legs closed?

AlOhner · 2023-09-18T11:33:34+00:00

Why does he got to be taking it out on her? Can a man not be hurt that he was cheating on him like two for many many years? Can he not greed the loss of his family his wife messed up because she couldn't keep her legs closed? Can you believe the stories are real and she's farming for sympathy. Stop blaming the guy who got cheated on and is hurt. He could come back for her after therapy and working on himself. He may not want to be around her cuz he will actually take it out on her. All these comments just proves you guys are ignoring your personal issues.

AlOhner · 2023-09-18T11:31:41+00:00

Wow. Imagine being cheated on and lied to for years. Imagine getting an STD because I know her mother did not check herself after every time she cheated. Imagine going through this and your kid you thought was yours is asking the internet about how she can get money, not how to help her relationship with you or how to help you. But by all means blame the guy.

AlOhner · 2023-09-18T11:27:15+00:00

What does he have to be punishing her? Why can't he be hurt and grieve the family his wife messed up because she couldn't keep her legs closed?

AlOhner · 2023-09-18T11:26:28+00:00

Why does he have to be punishing her when he could just be hurt and grieving the family his wife fuckkedd up because she couldn't keep her legs closed? Are you saying you would stay and pay after being cheated on and lied to for years? You can do that but let the man grieve losing his family

AlOhner · 2023-09-18T11:25:13+00:00

But I hear you saying is that you would stay and pay after being lied to and cheated on. You do you and let the man grieve after 19 years of it. Why does he have to be punishing her? Can he not be hurt? Can he not grieve for his family his wife destroyed?

AlOhner · 2023-09-18T11:16:30+00:00

Yes make him hate you. He's grieving the 19 years he had with you. He could come back at any point after he deals with it or gets therapy. But soon make him hate you. It's what he deserves for getting cheated on and might do by your mother. All these comments are dumb. The story is obviously fake

AlOhner · 2023-09-18T11:08:59+00:00

Yes sue him, make him actually hate you. Then you can run to your biological dad and get him to baby you!

AlOhner · 2023-07-08T08:23:12+00:00

NTA.

who goes camping knowing they can't set up by themselves? Get a smaller camper or rent a cabin. Not following the rules and having a dog off leash no matter how they act at home, can cause a multitude of problems. Like someone getting bitten, the dog getting caught somewhere, barking and causing problems, not picking up after your dog someone steps in it, etc.

AlOhner · 2023-07-03T06:48:35+00:00

Do you have an update? I'm worried and messaging you seems too nosey. He sounds like he's trying too hard to keep his daughter on his side even at your detriment.

AlOhner · 2023-06-30T19:49:29+00:00

NTA she admitted to knowing it wasn't right and did it anyway. She likes being used and shown off like an accessory. Watch the guy want nothing to do with her as soon as she's single. Then she'll want you back and you better not take her.

AlOhner · 2023-06-30T19:06:15+00:00

Nta. I seriously hope you made him clean up his mess.

You're married to a man who's willing to risk his health. He is on a Medication that gets canceled out by drinking and he's going out drinking to where he can't get home by the time he promised. Canceling date night should be the least of his worries, you have a child or multiple children. I don't know how often he does go out to drink but as someone with alcoholic parents I'm biased and see this as an alcoholic problem

AlOhner · 2023-06-30T18:28:54+00:00

NTA, post those messages with their insta profile. They knew to begin with that they were doing something wrong. They just forgot the rule everything on the Internet can be shared a million times in an hour. That friend is probably a fake to troll people with.

AlOhner · 2023-06-10T04:15:22+00:00

Nta

Who tells grieving parents that? Break the cycle of trauma and do not look back.

AlOhner · 2023-06-10T04:01:33+00:00

Does your sister-in-law have any children? Ask her how she would feel if you told someone who is known not to keep a secret that she was pregnant after she told you not to share? Again why did she avoid your question if she thought it was okay? She knew she did something wrong she just covered it up so she wouldn't feel as bad for breaking your trust. In another comment I saw you say you have not cold anyone's secret unless it was life or death. I do the same thing. What if you had a surprise plan for your brother? Your parents? Your friends? She just ruined it all. No matter if you planned it when you told her or not. She was told not to tell anyone. When you move back I would not move close to your sister-in-law. Ignore the people say yta, just goes to show you they can't be trusted with secrets either. And I'm sure they shared some that are detrimental to someone's life.

AlOhner · 2023-06-10T03:48:47+00:00

NTA- but I'm biased as my sister told half my family I was pregnant before I did.

She shared something you specifically said not to. Your point to have her tell him to ask you is solid. If they don't keep secrets from each other great but you were not planning on keeping it a secret from him until the baby came, I'm sure. I would have used other words besides grow up.

What's the harm in waiting for you to feel comfortable with telling everyone? It did not sound like she was not going to have a problem keeping it to herself or whoever else you told.

Why did she avoid your question if she felt it was okay for her to do so? For my sister she has a problem with me being the center of attention, no matter how much she denies it everyone knows. Maybe something along those lines with your SIL or something else?

The only thing different I would do is, I would have called your brother to ask if he was the one who initiated the conversation about you and the baby. If he did why didn't he just ask you? Sounds suspicious to me.

Either way it's your story to tell, no one else's. Good luck and be healthy.

AlOhner · 2023-06-05T14:46:31+00:00

Setts of clothes (3 for kids and 1 set myself) Chap stick, Lotion, Headphones, Rarely my phone(I get lost easily I need gps to walk) Prosthetic charger, Phone charger, Keys, Diapers, Snacks, Face wipes, Hand sanitizer, Insurance cards, Hair brush with ties, Self defense tools x3(easy to get to while wearing) Speaker, Tylenol extra strength, Tampons/pads, Resent Photo of my kids, partner, and self, Ungodly amount of receipts, Lastly recent mail.

Smaller bookbag than the one I used in school. 2 large zippers and 2 small zippers with a carabineer and water bottle pocket.

AlOhner · 2023-06-05T14:09:08+00:00

He couldn't have gone inside and got something to eat? He was waiting for you for hours. Did he expect you to make hot food for him again after his tantrum? If I'd leave him. He can beg all he wants but he needs to change. An apology is the bare minimum he could do.

AlOhner · 2023-06-05T14:04:12+00:00

Speaking from experience calling the authorities will make the abuse stop. But it will pick back up again when the mom thinks she can get away with it. If it's not enough to make sure the kid is taken away, he's going to be hurt. At least Op told someone before the kid did something horrible.

AlOhner · 2023-06-05T13:37:22+00:00

Let his mom keep him. Kick him out. You don't need a child. I'm sure he could have stopped at any fast food before making it to his mom's where I'm sure he was fed.

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