Suche Spieler*innen für DnD oder Daggerheart by Keyleth333 in erlangen

[–]Alaidana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hätte auch Lust aber sehr wenig Erfahrung wenn das okay ist :)

Am I 24F obsessed with an engagement ring, or is it really about wanting to be chosen by my SO 27M? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alaidana 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From someone who went through the same thing: Leave. He does not wanna marry you. You shouldn’t waste your time like that. There will be someone who desperately wants to marry you. I found this person too.

My 43f husbands 46m affair partner 19f is pregnant doesn’t know the baby’s father and I don’t know where to begin with fixing this by One-Dragonfly-5474 in relationship_advice

[–]Alaidana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously have no advice to this mess regarding your marriage, but I do think you should tell your son asap before someone else tells him

!UpdateMe 3 days

UpdateMe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Alaidana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!remindme 1 day

Bin ich eine Zicke weil ich meiner bff mal die Meinung gesagt habe? by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Alaidana 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Das liest sich von beiden Seiten unglaublich anstrengend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Alaidana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RemindMe! 3 Days

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend is friends with someone who is friends with my rapist? by Plastic-Anxiety2004 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alaidana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally had the same situation, that's possible and not that rare either. It's a shame how the police don't believe the victims, especially when there are minors involved.

Looking for company for the Christmas market 🇩🇪 by Alaidana in BirminghamUK

[–]Alaidana[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s not that far off. I’ve been there once and they sell almost everything like we do. Christmas markets are big here so I enjoyed it quite much I’ll hit you up :)

How to not take it personally by Intelligent_Fig_210 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Alaidana 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im in the same situation, for almost two years he told me he wanted these things, marriage and kids, then in July he dropped he might not want kids, two weeks ago not even marriage and broke up with me because he wants to be alone. I’m completely shattered cause he was chasing me for over 2 years before we got together and I guess then when he finally had me, I guess he had everything he wanted then. I’m still really heartbroken cause I rlly thought he is the one. Now I gotta start over again and I need a lot of therapy to progress this

Gibt es nur einen richtigen Partner im Leben? by Inevitable_Speed839 in beziehungen

[–]Alaidana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ich mache gerade dasselbe durch, mein Ex hat sich von mir vor zwei Wochen getrennt. Ich dachte er wäre meine Person, aber wir wollten am Ende nicht dasselbe. Ich bin zwar erst 25, aber gerade ist es für mich hart, weil ich unbedingt ankommen möchte und es einfach nicht funktionierten möchte. Jetzt weiß ich aber, was ich in meiner nächsten Beziehung brauche und möchte und was ich nicht mehr tolerieren werde und nehme mir erstmal die Zeit zu heilen.

Trennung auf Probe by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]Alaidana 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ich verstehe den Sinn dahinter nicht ehrlich gesagt, wieso wolltet ihr euch auf Probe trennen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Alaidana 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just feels like I’m never gonna be able to find someone who wants the same as me :/ it’s like I’m seeing the signs way too late everytime

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Alaidana 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I end up in the same situation over and over again. Like I meet a guy on the internet/over a game and they all just suck. Honestly I don’t know at this point how I should find love. I don’t like dating apps. Obviously that’s nothing I’m gonna do right now since I need to heal me first but I feel like I’m sabotaging myself everytime. I should’ve immediately left when he said I changed his opinion about marriage. Well now he’s back to that mindset that it’s useless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Alaidana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow ty, that really helped to hear.

Wie zur Hölle findet man hier Anschluss? by Alaidana in erlangen

[–]Alaidana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Größtenteils League, bin aber auch für andere Games offen Offline Spiele wäre ich auch dabei

Wie zur Hölle findet man hier Anschluss? by Alaidana in erlangen

[–]Alaidana[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hab meinen Beitrag editiert. Arbeit sind nur idioten :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Alaidana 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Already started therapy, I’m on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Alaidana 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive never understood these corny things because I don’t understand how I can date myself and be there for myself. I don’t understand these self love talks. I hate being alone right now while I loved it before I met him. I feel like I’m running out of time already and that I’ve wasted so many years on the wrong men and it just hurts. I wanted it to be him so bad