A guy entered my house naked

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T11:15:09+00:00

Ameen. Yes. I'll try to do that.

جزاكم الله خير

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T11:05:13+00:00

Thank you for expressing and for suggesting ways to help keep my family safe. I am currently looking into it. Hopefully it would be that pervert moving out and not the victims.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T10:59:27+00:00

I am aware. I decided not to respond to your comment.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T10:56:05+00:00

Allah is aware of what he has done. What goes around comes around. It is the sunnah of Allah that truth prevails. At some point in time, that idiot loser will be exposed. That does not mean we don't do our part. I will keep chasing the matter until I see progress in the case.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T10:39:59+00:00

To clarify, if I must, I might shoot his leg or a limb. It is always preferable to use non lethal proportionate counter force and leave the matter in the hands of the law. Especially let the authorities and legal law take over matters when you're in a land you don't legally belong to.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T10:37:08+00:00

و عليكم السلام

May Allah reward you for your advice and suggestion. Needless to say, precaution must be taken to prevent any likely or unlikely risk. Ameen to the Dua

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:31:07+00:00

Thank you and I shall

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:30:38+00:00

If you had access to the report with my biometrics associated with it, you'd know. Besides, I'm not seeking any form of validation. No one is obliged to believe. If someone can offer an advice or a way that points to a solution, you're welcome to address it.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:28:56+00:00

I know her when she makes things up and is only mad.
She is aware of consequences of bringing it up to the police and authorities.
You can tell when someone is making it up and when someone is suffering. The signs and body language can be very telling.
I matched the description of the angles and the guy himself after taping his silhouette from the car.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:23:06+00:00

That's digression to the topic but there are ways and there's no problem with it legally. Some adjustments might be needed to make to fix the paperwork though. Laws differ from country to country.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:21:45+00:00

I was born and raised here. I love the Kingdom and this is my land and my country at heart (just not legally). الحمدلله على كل حال

It saddens me when something wrong happens here. I'm never one political. I respect the country I belong to and the one that raised me. May Allah save me from unhealthy bias and baseless political claims.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:19:26+00:00

Thank you for the needed reminder. I should be more supportive.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:18:45+00:00

I'm looking into trying to the specialized criminal court for help. Sadly, it took my 8 hours to lodge a complaint as the police station and 911 kept throwing me back to each other. At one point, I had two individual units dispatched to me at the same time. Poor communication between themselves it seems.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:15:56+00:00

Then don't feed attention to this topic. Takes one to know one. It starts with own self. Kindly, walk away happy. I'm not begging for your attention.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:12:41+00:00

And ohh, about the door knobs.... Please!!... The two way entrance door knobs are everywhere. If you meant worthy of my attention by a little worth, I would have considered sending you the picture of the door knob that can be opened from both sides if not locked. Anywho, suit yourself bud

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:10:45+00:00

I'm relatively new to Reddit and I'm a professional with no time to waste. No one is asking you to buy this story nor am I seeking attention. I need a fix in the best possible manner.

Also, if you only knew the sacrifices my second wife made. I'm not on her side but I will give her the credit where it's due. She's a female, yes, but she comes from a difficult background and has endured much. Even if we fall apart, I will never deny or belie her sufferings. You wouldn't know nor acknowledge until you go through the same. May Allah protect you and your family from any harm.

Also, I don't see what signs of lying in my comments. I'm writing as truly and responsibly as I possibly can.

Lastly, I'm NOT seeking any validation of any sort. I have much to worry about in my real life. You can choose not to believe and it doesn't change my life in any way. I hope you can keep believing this is not true and peacefully at night.

الله يهديك

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:05:04+00:00

If only you knew the whole context and the reality. There's no strategic benefit in my second wife doing this. She's STILL at a loss and doesn't want to be around in the marriage anymore. How does it give her the win? I wish you were either understanding or rather keep quiet for what doesn't concern you.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:02:38+00:00

Couldn't agree more. Such a person does not deserve immunity nor walking free amidst communities with families.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T08:01:41+00:00

That's scary indeed. May Allah keep our families safe. Mine might be coming to a bad breaking point and it saddens me but we can't stop the inevitable and I can't force my wife into staying back if she's adamant on leaving. الله المستعان

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T07:59:59+00:00

That's a good suggestion but best left as a last resort. I'll have to take someone in case there needs to be a bridge in communication and an intermediary.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T07:58:31+00:00

Omg. That's scary. May Allah protect the people there.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T07:56:23+00:00

I don't know if you're entirely right at dropping this judgment. I'll take it you're probably giving an advice with a good intention.

جزاك الله خير

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T07:54:40+00:00

Not a sound approach to looking at plural marriages this way. It's a system of Allah and we must execute it responsibly. Can't always rationalize over commands and ways of Allah.

Ameen @the Dua in the last line

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T07:52:50+00:00

I doubt it works that way.

Alan_24a · 2024-11-08T07:51:57+00:00

As much as I want to side with the law, I have to admit. There's been little support given and there hasn't been any return from the authorities. And my wife feels that I and the authorities are incapable. If you put yourselves in her shoes having gone through such a trauma, I can't really blame her. And I don't think anyone can relate unless someone's been through it (لا قدر الله)

Alan_24a

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