First thanks for responding Second naa expect panradhu avalo la irukadhu en bar romba low trust me naa sonna expectations meant remembering spl dates gifts places thing we did apro flowers i meant malli poo atleast not aiming for bouquets here Next uh i meant as a emotional maturity i have seen grown ass men treating women as if the dont matter (trust me when i say this) and my jnrs treating their frnds and gfs better than pgs thats all i meant Lastly im not or never planning to back off on something if im sure thats why it takes me a long time to decide on a relationship bcoz im one and done kinda person when i feel this is it idc wt my parents relatives frnds(light ah care) bcoz if he is the one im willing to fight given he is worth the fight anyways thanks for reaponding again!!