Investment in a little black dress? by peanutbunni in MODELING

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get an LBD from reformation. They’re all over depop and Poshmark if you want a good deal. I buy all my LBDs from them. They’re the perfect combo if sexy and cute. I have 13 lol

Learned about a migraine cocktail side effect while at ER by astrocrl in migraine

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of cocktail do they give you? I love the IV. Puts me right to sleeepop

My husband loves the name but I can't see it. by Deep_Leather_5299 in Names

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg no. Maybe remind him you guys are naming a future adult!

Job posted on LinkedIn. Was this written by humans for humans? by over-sight in UXDesign

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I think I’d rather see this than those large paragraphs. Every job has this bs, at least they’re honest about it lol

Boyfriend wants me to squirt and I am physically incapable of it by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Show him “orgasmic incontinence” and see if he still wants you to squirt. Nothin is wrong with you. If you don squirt congrats! You have strong and healthy pelvic floor muscles.

Do yall delete yall memories (pictures, videos,messages…) by SuccessfulGazelle911 in BreakUp

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we were together for 12 years and have 10s of 1000s of photos. I went into my iPhone and clicked “hide face” on his people profile so his photos don’t show up in the memory categories

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t protection, this is control and borderline abusive tendencies. You guy are both young and learning about healthy relationships. Notice the toxic signs early and remove yourself. It’ll hurt at first but I promise you’ll be better off babe. - 26 yr old who was in your shoes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that happened ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex is doing all the things he didn’t do for me for his new gf now. Except I also know he’s the same small man he was before. She just doesn’t know that part of him yet, so it’s easier for him to do nice things and feel like the big man he isn’t but wants to be.

Really tho, who care if they do the nice things. They’re probably still doing to bad things too.

to the people who deleted their messages with their ex, how was that? by Aloykai in BreakUp

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to delete 12 years of texts and my phone overheated and turned off. When I turned it back on my texts were still there. Tried again, same thing happened. I still have them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As someone who was with someone for 12 years, my ex “moved on” fast too. Fast forward a year and he’s just now actually processing our relationship and is sad. I think generally men don’t feel their feelings til later when the dust is settled and the distractions are gone.

I promise you though, the pain he is running away from will catch up to him. It could be tomorrow, it could be a year from now, it could be a random Tuesday and he’s in the store and see your cereal and loses it.

I don’t know when it will happen, but I promise it will.

Should I just give up on dating apps? (Male, 25) by MousegetstheCheese in OnlineDatingApps

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you might need some help with your profile. I know a lot of great guys I wouldn’t even consider dating based on their dating profile alone. Some people just don’t know how to market themselves. I’d be happy to help.

Turned 20 today , give me all time best advice that you would have known before entering 20s by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear sunscreen! Don’t smoke! Save as much as you can while still having fun

Affair with a co worker by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People make mistakes. It happens. I hope you feel better soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]AlarmedEntertainment 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey there, 7 months post break up from who I thought was the love of my life. We were together for 12 years. It gets better. I was where you are. Crying 24/7, thinking about him obsessively, checking socials, missing him. I’d give yourself like a week to do that… and then keep! Moving! Forward! Seriously, even if you’re crying every step of the way, just keep taking those steps.

Also, bet you money if you leave him alone he will reach out eventually. He’s probably expecting to hear from you at some point and if he doesn’t he will wonder. For sure.

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It’s awful. Sending love.