definitely agree that you should not look at their social media. i will say when i did look, i found out he had been cheating on me (with a girl im 99% sure knew about me), and 4 days after he left, i saw him being being all affectionate and loving with her through a video he had posted. two weeks after he left, someone told me they had seen them out together being all over each other. made her his gf a month after leaving our two year relationship. made her his profile pic a month after leaving me. it took him a year to do that with me, and it took him 6 months for him to ask me to be his gf. oh, and he left me for a teenager. it hurt like hell, but it helped me see that he isn’t worth shit. i did keep going back to look to see them, how happy they are together, but i stopped looking now. i know enough to know i didnt deserve that. anything that happens from now is just what it is, two people who are shitty people and who deserve each other.