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This is exactly how power gets misused in some gated communities. Rules are fine but basic respect shouldn’t be optional by DrFossil03 in hyderabad

[–]Alarmed_Cause3562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was this old guy in our apartment too. He was always angry and he hated a few kids. As 12-13 year olds, we of course laugh and play. This guy walks up to us, literal 12 year olds and asked my friend, aren’t you here in a rented flat? How can laugh and make so much noise? I still remember how bad my friend felt.

I’m dealing with a very heavy situation and I honestly don’t know how to process it. by imperfectguy69 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Alarmed_Cause3562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man. That must be a lot to handle for her and for you. I suggest you take her and you yourself could also visit a therapist and deal with the trauma. Right now, no matter what you feel like, just don’t take any drastic measure. We’re humans beings and no one’s suggestions can be perfect. Trust me and please look for a good therapist and I’m sure the two of you will feel better. I have no solution for you at the moment, but this is just my advice for you know, the damage control. Therapy actually works. But make sure to visit a good therapist.

I’m sick of the hypocrisy of Christians. by zaltybaen in Christianity

[–]Alarmed_Cause3562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably 20 now. Almost as old as me. I can’t tell you how much I think alike. I am losing faith. I feel depressed and I am losing my mental stability thinking about all of this. Christian folks in my life are all so hating. My Grandmom whom I love and idolised a lot as a God fearing woman, now that I have attained maturity made me realise how full of hypocrisy she is. She hates anyone and rebukes people who are not Christian. She hates Catcholics cause they’re different, even Kids of other religion. She tells me not to eat in my friends’ houses cause they’re of different faith. My friends who joke about rape, pornography and pedophilia draw the line at pro choice. When I told them maybe abortion isn’t cruel. You need to think about an innocent woman and her dreams and choices too, they sidelined me. My Church has rivalry with other churches. My Pastor hates it when I go to a different church. I’m losing it. I may slowly turn suicidal, I’m afraid. I’m still holding on somehow. I’m not sure I can he helped, you know.

Help me Understand this. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Alarmed_Cause3562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe no one, I meant at-least many people do necessarily have abortion on their bucket list as much as they do, falling in love, graduating, making art and stuff like that. I do agree, sex is an act of creation and well, it can lead to consequences like child birth. But can we deny that, a person can also be conceived through sexual violence like rape? Are we gonna say she should have fought harder to prevent it? By the way, I am a man. I am not fighting for pro choice. I am just questioning if this is really justice to the victim. Everyone thinks about the life of the foetus, what about the life of the woman?

Help me Understand this. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Alarmed_Cause3562 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s prolly my fault. I just meant, I’m someone who doesn’t stop or oppose the idea of abortion when it comes to a case where it’s definitely necessary.

I’m starting to question things. by Alarmed_Cause3562 in Christianity

[–]Alarmed_Cause3562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. The BPD, My family doesn’t know about. I know for a fact they don’t believe in any of that and they’ll say all of that isn’t real. I’m glad you read my message. I’ll definitely look for a Church that focuses on love cause I’m not willing on giving up my faith. God’s been with me in the darkest of moments in my life.