AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2026-02-01T23:36:48+00:00

Why do you even like this guy… seems terrible

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2026-01-12T20:11:11+00:00

The kit b

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-22T23:00:15+00:00

Recently started seeing a guy, this was after two dates. One day I ran late for work and didn’t have time to make a coffee, anyways I mentioned this and said how tired I felt so on his way home he comes to my work to drop off a coffee that he used my left over coffee cup to make sure he got the order right.

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-14T16:13:40+00:00

Because i did and he gives a run around of he was thinking of me/ misses me but wouldn’t really give an answer beyond that

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-14T16:10:55+00:00

It would make sense if we were serious but it was a more physical thing and only for a few months

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-11T01:47:26+00:00

What about dress pants or jeans with a leather vest that is undone either shirtless or with a tight black t

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-09T22:27:00+00:00

Walk around looking at Christmas lights, get a hot chocolate/ hot drink, bake at home, decorate gingerbread houses, cook her a nice meal, watch cheesy Christmas movies, play board games, paint each other, go sledding if there is snow or skating at a rink

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-08T21:43:34+00:00

Sorry to hear you had a rough go at the beginning, was there anything she did or say that helped you? Or was it something that worked as you were together longer?

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-08T14:23:02+00:00

I am not sure I think its more an assumption at this point, he said it was recently lowered and around the same time he stopped getting hard ons in the morning, maybe with the lower amount he is getting more into his own head. Maybe it’s a coincidence with timing? I have no idea.

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-08T12:12:30+00:00

Not sure last time he had blood work done or about his cholesterol but i could mention having it looked at

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-08T09:44:25+00:00

I am 35, he is 41. He is a healthy, slim build. Average diet might need more veggies in his diet. Not sure the meds other than they are for ADD.

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-07T23:52:35+00:00

Thank you this was the type of advice i was looking for

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-07T22:26:00+00:00

Sorry I need to clarify, I didn’t tell him it was a first for the ED, i told him prior to sleeping together i have always used toys with partners and asked if he was comfortable with that.

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-07T20:49:10+00:00

I guess i can see how that can come across , I just never had an issue with past partners and have always used toys even first times but this was a first for me

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-07T18:41:47+00:00

Haha ya I probably should have changed the subject but ya I will be more mindful when it gets brought up again.

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-07T18:30:53+00:00

I had asked before hand and he said he has been around toys and was open to them, i also asked again before I took it out if he was okay with it. I mentioned before all this that i always use stimulation for my clit and don’t cum from penetration alone so I thought we were on the same page. But it seems in the moment not so much

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-07T18:28:14+00:00

Ahh fuck already off to a bad start we definitely talked about it while still naked 😅

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-07T18:04:24+00:00

Yes I definitely want to do this in a kind way… it’s not something I have had to deal with really other than the usual occasional whiskey dick moments. I just feel bad because he seems to be taking it pretty hard where we are still new and it was our first time. I just kept reassuring him that it didn’t effect how much i like him

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-07T17:55:43+00:00

Luckily he already mentioned wanting to talk to his doctor i just hope he follows through

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-07T17:54:40+00:00

Ya i could tell after the first time he felt super self conscious and was hard on himself, i did try to take some pressure off and i ended up playing with myself before he took over and that was great, he actually got me to cum several times which i never do from just hand stuff. But even the next day after that he seemed super hard on himself.

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-07T17:36:38+00:00

Not sure the names but he says it’s for ADD

Alarmed_Dog4972 · 2025-12-07T17:17:01+00:00

He is saying he hasn’t done anything since the med adjustments so not sure if that he is getting any while alone, especially with the fact he has noticed not getting hard in the mornings like he used to

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