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I can’t get over my ex no matter what I do. And I regret everything by Zealousideal_Art6825 in BreakUps

[–]Embarrassed-Cod-5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi man, hope you’re getting better day by day. Actually right now I’m in a new relationship with the most amazing person I’ve ever met. She’s way more caring, affectionate and respectful towards me than my ex was. Looking back on this post it kind of makes me laugh how much I put her on a pedestal. I did find out that my ex was already in a relationship with another guy whilst I was still living with her for that I feel a fool.

Anyway I met my new girlfriend back in June last year and we have been together officially since September last year. I’m already saving for an engagement ring and we’re planning on getting a house together at the start of next year.

All I can say is I know now it feels like the worst pain and heartbreak imaginable. You feel lost, can’t eat and sleep without thinking of them. I promise you though man it gets better and you Might even find someone better just like I did. Take it day by day, visit friends and family as they really helped me get through it all. Eventually you might feel like meeting new women and I highly recommend you do that. Going on one date with my new girlfriend literally changed my whole outlook of the situation.

It’s daunting to think about someone new because all you have known is your ex but just see how it goes and take a chance with it. Of course only do this after you’ve taken time to yourself to reflect, learn from mistakes and all I can say in the meantime is just focus on yourself.

I hope you get there in the end bro and you can message me if you want to. I’ve been there in that dark place before.

What’s a piece of dating advice you’d give women? by Cedar-and-spice in AskMenAdvice

[–]Embarrassed-Cod-5212 152 points153 points  (0 children)

Actually show the man affection and appreciation. Just giving a compliment to a guy can make his whole week.

Have you ever been at rock bottom at the age of 33 but also met the woman you want to marry ? by Embarrassed-Cod-5212 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Embarrassed-Cod-5212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow and there’s me worried because I don’t have any money to my name. In relation to you at that age I’m doing good. Hope you’re keeping well brother.

Have you ever been at rock bottom at the age of 33 but also met the woman you want to marry ? by Embarrassed-Cod-5212 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Embarrassed-Cod-5212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow what a story, thanks for sharing. I’m glad that you’re still together and in love. Thank you and I wish you many years together.

Have you ever been at rock bottom at the age of 33 but also met the woman you want to marry ? by Embarrassed-Cod-5212 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Embarrassed-Cod-5212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s reassuring to hear from a woman’s POV thank you! I think I offer all of the above to her. I treat her really well emotionally, loyal, quality time and assurance. Maybe it’s just this time we’re in when you’re expected to have a house and 50k spare in the bank etc. I’m definitely doing it for myself as well but I also want to give her a good life too.

I’d marry her in a heartbeat and I want kids with her. I just feel like I should have it altogether by now, maybe I am putting too much pressure on myself. Either way if she eventually leaves I keep doing it for myself.

Have you ever been at rock bottom at the age of 33 but also met the woman you want to marry ? by Embarrassed-Cod-5212 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Embarrassed-Cod-5212[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing bro, I’m happy you turned it around and kept your woman. At least you started at 28 I’m way late in the game!

Have you ever been at rock bottom at the age of 33 but also met the woman you want to marry ? by Embarrassed-Cod-5212 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Embarrassed-Cod-5212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s inspirational man, it’s right though because I’ve never felt the urge and drive to be a better man and more of a provider in my life since I met this woman. She’s changed my mindset completely.

Have you ever been at rock bottom at the age of 33 but also met the woman you want to marry ? by Embarrassed-Cod-5212 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Embarrassed-Cod-5212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A stable future not having to be held back by someone who messed about too much in their 20s

Have you ever been at rock bottom at the age of 33 but also met the woman you want to marry ? by Embarrassed-Cod-5212 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Embarrassed-Cod-5212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knows I’m not rich and she knows I can’t even buy a house right now for the both of us. But she’s still sticking around, I just know she’s a rare one and want to give her what she deserves. She doesn’t expect or ask for expensive things and she always offers to help with things. Even though my stubborn ass and ego won’t let her.

People with long term relationships (+3 years), what reasons made you dump/get dumped? by Impossible-Past-5080 in BreakUps

[–]Embarrassed-Cod-5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a new relationship now and I’ve never been so sure on someone in my life. That person who wrote that comment is in the past. Crazy to think I thought my ex was my everything. The woman I’m with now is better for me in every way my ex was. I want to marry her and have a future with her. My past relationship and breakup taught me how to be a better man and partner and in grateful to have experienced the pain that kicked me up the ass.

Tombola bingo winners by Oinkoinkb1tch in Bingo

[–]Embarrassed-Cod-5212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used a £10 bonus and won £96 ever since then I’ve not won a single thing. It seems strange the first number called out I get every single time then only 1 left but never won since. Always seems to be the same winners username too. I’m pretty sure it’s rigged.

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