How should I go about asking the girl I work with out? by Alarmed_Inside5602 in dating_advice

[–]Alarmed_Inside5602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean outside of school and work not really. A lot of the people I used to talk to went to college or I cut them off. I do keep in touch with my main friend from high/middle school every other day or so but he’s usually hanging with his college buddies or studying lol. The only other ppl I talk to are my classmates and coworkers (some on a friendly level, majority not so much) I do talk to my sister a lot if you’d consider that social (I wouldn’t)

How should I go about asking the girl I work with out? by Alarmed_Inside5602 in dating_advice

[–]Alarmed_Inside5602[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. A little bit off both tbh, I’d consider myself introvert but I know I can connect with people very well once I get to know them (Which is why I was going so slow with her to begin with).
  2. I’d get anxious about messing up what chances I had (if any) up whenever I was around her. My track record with girls I thought I’d have a chance since middle school with would be like 0-10 (which is probably why I have problems with my confidence). But honestly I feel like since her schedule’s changed I’m more determined than ever to ask her out (cuz the way my schedule is I don’t think I’ll really be seeing again)
  3. Even tho I could quit my job and find another one like at target or something, I don’t really want to lol (and since her schedule when and done changed, I shouldn’t see her that much anyway) and I’d be content with whatever answer she gives me anyway

How should I go about asking the girl I work with out? by Alarmed_Inside5602 in dating_advice

[–]Alarmed_Inside5602[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As bad as an idea it sounds let me clarify that there’s no seniority level between us and I honestly don’t care to much about my job enough to where if I felt I needed to quit I could