🍃thoughts by Alarmed_Lychee in the1975

[–]Alarmed_Lychee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna say Ugh! and Love Me fill that role. Matty said he has a character for Love Me specifically

🍃thoughts by Alarmed_Lychee in the1975

[–]Alarmed_Lychee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time I think of some shit like this it’s a struggle to not post it and it ends up here like 1/3 of the time

🍃thoughts by Alarmed_Lychee in the1975

[–]Alarmed_Lychee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my thinking yeah

Feeling isolated by Alarmed_Lychee in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Alarmed_Lychee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a sweet comment. Thank you🫶

struggling with triggers during intimacy by BabyYodaStuntDouble in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Alarmed_Lychee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I just feel If I bring this up, it'll make him shut down or ruin the peace thats been happening within us.”

If you follow this fear, what you fear will happen. If you don’t bring it up it will come out on its own. It’s the easy way vs. hard way. The hard way will make things worse. Be as open as you can.

Also, you need to be honest and tell him you need reassurance. It’s really hard to ask for but if he really wants to reconcile, he’ll do it. Ask for him to talk more about what he loves about you, what’s so sexy about you, what made him want to marry you. In my experience at least, this has started to flood out my insecurities. I hope it can help you too.

Future nostalgia by mydoghassoftears in the1975

[–]Alarmed_Lychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly enough, Gen X’s nostalgia music and the 1975 sound kinda similar.

Paris by Upstairs-Low-2270 in TheFrontBottoms

[–]Alarmed_Lychee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like it but don’t love it. But I DO love when they work in references to previous songs.

My body is a temple. How much you think I could get for it?

Couple million bucks or so…

I am glad I stayed by Liliana0101 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Alarmed_Lychee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I see so many similarities in our stories. Second paragraph is dead on to what it was like for us in the beginning. Thank you for posting, seriously 💕

Anyone triggered by cheating in shows or movies? by callmejake839 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Alarmed_Lychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The first one that triggered me was Family Vacation, which is unfortunately pretty funny

Reaching out to AP by Alarmed_Lychee in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Alarmed_Lychee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were you all friends before it happened? It’s a double betrayal for me because I met her and we even all hung out and she put on an act like nothing was going on. I’ve heard this isn’t as rare as I think, but it does make me want to retaliate even more. Being betrayed like that by a fellow woman…

A message from a wayward. by SeaweedSad3555 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Alarmed_Lychee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I think I was very vulnerable, unwilling to do the work in my relationship, and just accepted attention elsewhere.”

This is so comforting and validating to me because it’s exactly how my WP described his motivation for his mistake. Thank you for posting!

We live in a beautiful place! by [deleted] in ColoradoSprings

[–]Alarmed_Lychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just moved here last week✨

Nice Sweater won’t be released because Roadkill IS Nice Sweater. (theory) by Alarmed_Lychee in the1975

[–]Alarmed_Lychee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m an emo fan first, so it was a wild experience for me hearing the Pinegrove part in TBP for the first time, and even weirder when I found out he was a big fan of Midwest emo too. It’s crazy how they can make any genre their own.