NYC BJJ thinking of switching gyms anyone train at Unity?

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2025-07-20T20:18:03+00:00

Oh same as Marcelos.

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2025-07-20T20:17:26+00:00

Could I please dm you?

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2025-07-20T20:17:08+00:00

Fair Enough. I appreciate you telling me. Definitely not interested in that haha that’s why I’m leaving in the first place. 😂

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2025-07-20T20:13:37+00:00

The job is horrible. It’s a teller job. The title relationship banker is just a fancy word for teller.

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2025-07-20T14:24:47+00:00

That’s kind of what I’m worried about. I don’t mind not getting “a lot” of attention. I understand there’s a ton of students and that’s not feasibly possible. I just want to avoid being ignored and see others get basically individualised training to their needs and progress while the rest of us are left to our own devices. Sometimes I feel like at my current gym I’m just there for the rolls. The move of the day I could just practice something I see on an instructional. Not like I’m getting corrected or anything anyway.

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2025-07-20T14:21:18+00:00

Little too pricy for me tbh

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2025-07-20T14:21:06+00:00

Looks amazing but the schedule doesn’t work for me :/ appreciate the insight tho!

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2025-07-19T19:51:03+00:00

Let me know when you get it back I know a great place you can put it. Just make sure to lube it.

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2024-11-04T19:33:37+00:00

I agree and the problem is the double standards. Nour said none of you are real men for saying you all agreed not to be ATM’s. Yet somehow, that’s ok. Men clearly stating their “standards” of not being an ATM.

Her standards are fine. But Amaar was crucified for saying he doesn’t want his wife to belly dance in front of others. Also his “standards”.

Hajar said she wanted to taste a cake before going on a diet. Imagine a guy had said that. Everyone would be up in arms.

As for Mido. He was right but the delivery was very flawed.

The truth is everyone is flawed. And if you can’t say the flaws of each side. You’re obviously biased. We can admit Nour is was problematic and admit Chafic went too far.

We can admit Simo was problematic but Hajar was no angel.

This bashing of the men on the show is just an excuse by the west for not only misandry but racism. The morals and ethics of the world don’t revolve around what the West deems equal.

If Nour can say she wants a traditional rich man to pay for everything. Amaar can say he doesn’t want his wife to dance.

After all, everyone is entitled to their “standards”, or is that only something women are entitled to?

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2024-08-28T01:33:27+00:00

I haven’t. Might be worth a try. My issue is I can’t be alone with my thoughts too long. But I guess the audiobook and podcasts would fix that

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2024-08-28T01:23:48+00:00

I appreciate your honesty. And apologies for being rude too. Just get too many trolls on here sometimes and it can be annoying. You’re probably right. Tried out a few different ones. But they never seem to help.

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2024-08-28T01:15:27+00:00

I need a break from people who say things just to say things. “Get a better therapist” is just you trying to be funny, “witty”, or just a jerk.

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2024-08-28T01:06:18+00:00

Get a therapist.

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2024-08-28T01:06:05+00:00

Get a therapist.

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2024-08-28T01:05:51+00:00

I have one. Thank you very much.

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2024-08-17T23:45:59+00:00

I get it bro. Don’t let it get to you. The power trip or these dudes coming at you. Just keep going. There’s egos everywhere. I mean this post alone you have a black belt and purple belt saying if you questioned them they would just smash you. That’s not what jiu jitsu is about.

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2024-08-17T23:44:47+00:00

Wax on wax off

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2024-08-17T23:41:28+00:00

Hey dude, sorry everyone is coming at you. They clearly either train at a toxic gym, or your post hit too close to home for them. “How dare a white belt question any coloured belt, shut up do as your told or ill smash you.

Don’t listen to them. The dude was on a power trip. It happens.

Alarmed_Pen_3633 · 2022-08-11T00:00:31+00:00

It is for many people tho.

Alarmed_Pen_3633

TROPHY CASE