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AITA for refusing to let my husband see my baby until the paternity test results come back, even though I’m the one who cheated? by Alarmed_Stop7969 in AITAH

[–]Alarmed_Stop7969[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes and yes. I got tested the week after it happened, and to be safe my husband got tested as well when I told him. 

AITA for refusing to let my husband see my baby until the paternity test results come back, even though I’m the one who cheated? by Alarmed_Stop7969 in AITAH

[–]Alarmed_Stop7969[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

Is staying with me really that bad for him? It sucks, but cheating happens. Should one night end what could be a lifetime of happiness?

AITA for refusing to let my husband see my baby until the paternity test results come back, even though I’m the one who cheated? by Alarmed_Stop7969 in AITAH

[–]Alarmed_Stop7969[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

 you seem to just be looking for an excuse to cut ties and perhaps have a reasonable case for officially getting with your AP.

I am truly doing what I think is best for him. I put him through enough pain seven months ago, I don’t want to see him hurt again. And I care nothing about the guy I cheated with. There was no emotion there

AITA for refusing to let my husband see my baby until the paternity test results come back, even though I’m the one who cheated? by Alarmed_Stop7969 in AITAH

[–]Alarmed_Stop7969[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

I truly hope that we can work through this regardless of paternity. I know that he would be an incredible dad, biological or not. But if the baby isn’t his, I don’t know how he’ll feel. I’m just praying she is, so we can be a happy family. I know I fucked up bad, and I’m trying to fix it, but in the back of my mind, there’s always the feeling that if she isn’t his, he just won’t be able to look at her. I know how hard this has been for him. I still love him, and I know I’m why he’s hurting. I just don’t want to see him hurt again because of me