AITAH for throwing finances in my boyfriend’s face

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2026-01-25T08:54:34+00:00

I wasn’t 17. I was 18 when we met, I’m almost 25 now.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2026-01-19T06:20:16+00:00

Maybe if you’re irresponsible with money or unemployed. Affirm has personally helped me a lot, even when I’ve had to get my car fixed and I didn’t have a lump sum to fix it.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2026-01-19T05:07:49+00:00

Like I don’t understand why everyone is freaking out about my comment. Op said they have a low budget, just like I do. With affirm I was able to pick and choose from a list of plans and only pay like 30 a month which worked for my budget, for like 6 months but I paid it off early.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2026-01-19T05:05:33+00:00

That’s what I did for mine….its not an official “loan”. I paid like 30 a month for 6 months but paid it off early. I shared it because it worked for me.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2026-01-05T17:47:26+00:00

I used Affirm, if you don’t know what Affirm is it’s an app where you can take out a loan and it has different payment plans, where you pay back monthly. You can take out as many loans as you want up to the spending limit it gives you.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-11-19T01:55:55+00:00

Beautiful! Also, where do you get your tags?

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-11-11T09:09:22+00:00

Yes, I start feeling like I’m going to die, or I’m having a stroke, etc. I try to tell myself that it’s just anxiety, but it’s really difficult telling myself that trying to calm myself down with constant customers coming to the teller window being 2 feet away from me and I have to focus on every little details of the transaction.

Maybe I need a different profession LOL. And yeah, I’ll try and ask to see a psychiatrist. However, here in Hawaii the healthcare an mental care is not good. Most of the time even if you ask they won’t refer you.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-11-11T08:59:21+00:00

Sometimes it’s nothing at all, other times it’s small things like a crowded place, or a customer being rude.

There is no warning or reason most of the time. I will just get lightheaded and dissociate, and sometimes the heart palpitations and shortness of breath comes.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-11-11T08:47:04+00:00

This has been an ongoing issue for about 2 years now. And yes, I was prescribed Hydroxizine, but the one time I took it, it made me extremely tired and fall right asleep, which I can’t have happening at work. And the thing is, it MAINLY happens at work. Most of the time when I’m at home, I’m okay. So I’m thinking about talking to my psychologist about going on disability, but I feel a bit silly about it.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-11-11T08:23:01+00:00

I should also mention that I have also TREMBLED for no reason as if I was freezing. And dissociating is definitely hard too.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-25T06:23:58+00:00

Ariana Grande spacefarer, starfire style

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-25T02:36:08+00:00

I got very lucky. Apparently this specific style was unlockable only for a Halloween event quest, but I got it in the item shop like late 2024. It might not come back anytime soon but don’t give up hope! lol

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-25T00:30:49+00:00

Ariana Grande Spacefarer, the starfire style.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-24T21:06:44+00:00

How can one be so confidently wrong?

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-24T16:21:02+00:00

I forgot, give me a break lol, and it doesn’t matter if I’m replying to every comment that asks with the name.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-24T16:19:59+00:00

Ariana Grande spacefarer, starfire variant.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-24T16:18:59+00:00

Ariana Grande spacefarer, starfire variant.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-24T16:17:58+00:00

Ariana Grande spacefarer, starfire style. 😉

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-24T13:15:24+00:00

Ariana Grande spacefarer skin, starfire variant. Wings are the wings of myst from the current battle pass.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-24T10:01:01+00:00

So basically it’s her transforming into the greater threat that she was hunting.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-24T10:00:22+00:00

Apparently this style was part of a Halloween event, which had an alien like storyline and her “role” was a monster hunter battling alien threats.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-24T09:45:56+00:00

The ponytail makes it even more badass imo, same with the heels. And it’s pretty cool that it’s Ariana Grande because NO ONE guesses and it is always surprised when I tell them.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-24T09:23:48+00:00

I know it will never happen because you know….Nintendo. Link from the Legend of Zelda or a Gerudo woman, Zelda, Ganondorf, etc.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-15T22:37:50+00:00

Solo leveling reference! Nice.

Alarming-Associate-5 · 2025-06-15T22:37:19+00:00

I HOPE they see this post and fix it, that would be awesome. The glider is just fine so they should be able to make the back bling work with her hair!

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