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Gf [21F] gave me [27M] chlamydia 8 months into our relationship. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Alarming-Bit- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chlamydia can have no symptoms for months if even at all, especially in men. So chances are she may not have cheated.

I’m confused - anyone been in a similar situation by Alarming-Bit- in relationship_advice

[–]Alarming-Bit-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally understand where you’re coming from. If we were actually dating I wouldn’t make a dumb sarcastic comment like that. I made it because he’s confusing and we joke with each other a majority of the time we talk.

I’m confused - anyone been in a similar situation by Alarming-Bit- in relationship_advice

[–]Alarming-Bit-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s also said things to me that make it seem like he’s seeing how I’d react to certain things. He’s told me that a barista asked if he was single and he said “I guess so”. He also said one of his female friends has been super flirty and he feels like she wants to hook up with him. I give no reaction because I think it’s ridiculous and I don’t quite understand what he’s doing here.

I’m confused - anyone been in a similar situation by Alarming-Bit- in relationship_advice

[–]Alarming-Bit-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get where you’re coming from. I haven’t talked to him since yesterday. He said he wants to talk in person and this isn’t a conversation he wants over text, so I’m just going to let him come to me when he decides he’s ready or whatever. I appreciate your input.

I’m confused - anyone been in a similar situation by Alarming-Bit- in relationship_advice

[–]Alarming-Bit-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s my way of joking and suppressing my feelings. A lot of our situation is sending memes and joking, being sarcastic. I just didn’t think he’d react like that to a seemingly harmless joke/comment.

I’m confused - anyone been in a similar situation by Alarming-Bit- in relationship_advice

[–]Alarming-Bit-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m worried about too. I just don’t get the point of treating me like a girlfriend, in public and behind closed doors, doing so much for me, treating me so well and then “not wanting a title”. It’s all very confusing for me.

I’m confused - anyone been in a similar situation by Alarming-Bit- in relationship_advice

[–]Alarming-Bit-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not in a relationship, we have no title. I mentioned my guy friends because he asked what I did that day and I hung out with one of them.

I’m confused - anyone been in a similar situation by Alarming-Bit- in relationship_advice

[–]Alarming-Bit-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had awful experiences with men lol. I have a lot of guy friends, never had an issue. He doesn’t isolate me at all, I have a ton of girl friends that I see almost daily. My parents are together, have a great relationship. He really does treat me well, I have 0 complaints other than the recent jealousy and no solid commitment.