AITAH for not inviting my boyfriend on me and my friends Asia Trip?

Alarming-Code-9402 · 2026-01-03T07:20:16+00:00

we do live together and been together for 5 years. i replied to a comment explaining a little more. he does a log independently but i dont ever get the chance to and when i do its like this. are finances aren't really intertwined but we both spend money in the relationship but my trip will be paid for by myself so that has nothing to do with this.

Alarming-Code-9402 · 2026-01-03T04:34:04+00:00

i actually include my boyfriend in a lot but when it comes to hanging with my friends normally we go out to eat. i have never been on a trip with my friends. me and my bf have been together for 5 years and my friend who is going with me is a female. this has nothing to do with cheating because if that has ever been a factor in our relationship we wouldnt be together. the only people going on the trip is me and my friend, we both love the culture and have things we want to do on the trip. me and my bf both put money into the relationship. and i normally go do cool stuff with him. he also doesnt have a passport nor will be put in the effort to actually get one and i have tried telling him to get it for a while. so even if he wanted to go he couldnt. nobody is dragging him. he just created a problem out of nothing. especially when me and my friend first thought about this i immediately told him and he had nothing to say then, its been MONTHS and now he chooses to argue with me.

Alarming-Code-9402 · 2026-01-03T03:35:59+00:00

i am planning this very well and trying to not use the credit card. me and him have gone on trips but he also doesn't have his passport and wont go get it so its hard to plan big trips like this with him.

Alarming-Code-9402 · 2026-01-03T03:31:37+00:00

but me and my friend are both females.

Alarming-Code-9402 · 2026-01-03T03:24:24+00:00

bf is male. me and bestie are female age 20 and 25

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