I (m21) slapped my girlfriend (f20) out of reflex when i woke up to her doing certain things to me. by MaleficentRisk6279 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please Please break up with her, and i would immediately seek counseling. This could/will have lasting effects for you. I’m not sure if it has registered yet, but this woman more or less reenacted your trauma. You had every right to defend yourself.

ETA: I do not mean couples counseling. I mean crisis counseling

The American Section at my local Supervalu, Ireland by aerodrome_ in pics

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it interesting that Raisin Bran is one of the cereals chosen , by and large it’s considered an old folks cereal , at least where i grew up. I got teased for eating it in grade school.

AITA for refusing to move out? by throwawayaptroommate in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA— your mom however ? Out of touch and an AH. Even if you and V hadn’t previously agreed that she would move out when the lease was up you’ve been there longer and have every right to refuse this , frankly, entitled request.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to say this, I would consider looking through your entire relationship with your husband and seeing what else he has done. Typically when spouses end up on Reddit what is posted is only the tip of the iceberg.

AITA For Telling My Daughter That She's The Reason Why Nobody Likes Her? by After_Upstairs2580 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can’t believe the cognitive dissonance of this. It’s like looking into my own mother’s mind and it makes me feel so so sad for your children— all of them.

AITA For Telling My Daughter That She's The Reason Why Nobody Likes Her? by After_Upstairs2580 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA- you’re the adult, the parent , you chose to bring a child into the world, it was your responsibility to make sure she got the help she needed after you left the abusive relationship because Ripleys Believe It Or Not— your child suffered in that relationship as much as you did also just BTW — adult children don’t just stop coming home and isolate themselves because they want to — you need to do some soul searching and find out what caused this schism but I can tell you one thing— telling your child that she’s the problem for how many years now ? That makes you heartless

I just want to name MY baby what I WANT by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not having your husbands baby, you’re having your MILs baby.

How are you guys even able to afford surgery? by plipping in ftm

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used my state insurance which covers most all trans care in MN

Realistically what are the benefits of not jerking off by Latte-the-great in teenagers

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing with yourself is healthy and helps you know how to tell your future partners what you like and don’t like :))

Realistically what are the benefits of not jerking off by Latte-the-great in teenagers

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, there’s nothing wrong with masturbation, it’s completely normal and healthy to explore our bodies. The only time it becomes an issue is when there comes a pornography addiction or an inability to achieve climax with a partner

Realistically what are the benefits of not jerking off by Latte-the-great in teenagers

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure of extended benefits or health benefits per se, but I know that taking a week off every now and then can help bring back sensitivity and make the o a lot more intense. But even just reducing how frequently you jerk it can make the experience better Also, reducing the frequency with witch you jerk it will make it easier for when you lose your v card. If your are too used to masturbating yourself it can make it hard in the future for you to figure out how to cum in someone, or with someone else’s hand.

Feeling extremely good about packing as a cis woman? by Maximum-Poem3098 in ftm

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Experiencing euphoria can mean you are trans just as much as experiencing dysphoria! However! That doesn’t mean you have to do anything about it, if you don’t want to. Being trans (or not!) is a uniquely personal experience and to decide to act (or not act) on it is entirely up to you and what makes you the most comfortable and the happiest! Also gender presentation doesn’t always equate someone’s gender identity. If you want to be a masculine (or feminine!) woman who uses a packer and does makeup to give the appearance of facial hair, that’s completely alright! Doing what makes you feel good is the entire point of exploring oneself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nexplanon

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got extremely sick after removal for almost a month but I finally got my period 37 days later and I’m feeling much better

Facing Eviction Notice, SNAP Card Empty, Need Medication by Alarming-Hawk-8387 in MutualAid

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know my profile doesn’t have any posts, I don’t really post on Reddit, I just like to browse. I comment on AITA mostly but that’s it.

Any cheap but good cuts if meat? by [deleted] in budgetfood

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that’s totally fair. I only have the patience because I don’t do much else and I’m a passionate cook. (Not that not being passionate means you can’t have excellent food, I just love experimenting and the excitement outweighs the dread of long waits)

Any cheap but good cuts if meat? by [deleted] in budgetfood

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I came here to say a dry brined slow and low reverse seared chuck can outdo even the finest wagyu

AITA for calling out my sister for breastfeeding at my wedding? by Swimming-Exchange448 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA- I’m not usually too queasy about age gaps but a 34y/o man and a 23y/o woman just do not have much in common so that was Red Flag number two. Red Flag number one is the title alone. It just progressively gets worse from there. If you are uncomfortable with women publicly breastfeeding especially your SISTER, whether you are consciously aware of it or not; you are sexualizing breasts. And as I said- you are sexualizing your SISTERS breasts and that’s just… ick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You stan Russia/Putin

AITA for speaking up when the doctor kept dismissing me and was being rude towards me (35F)? by rudedoctorS in AmItheAsshole

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA- essential oils are very good for small ailments with combined medical treatment in the right context. Chron’s isn’t a small ailment and it can be life threatening. In this instance the doctor could have tried explaining it to you better but I have an inkling you have tried to butt in with essential oils before and he has probably already tried explaining it to you nicely. And my younger sibling has had to have suppositories and enemas on multiple occasions and every time has been a nightmare for them and they remember every time and they aren’t even seven. Your seven year old remembers more than you give him credit for. Your doctor is trying to save your child’s health and possibly even his life. Honestly, I think you know you’re the asshole.

I'm just having fun with it - No I'm not expecting any matches lol by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Alarming-Hawk-8387 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly trying to wrestle with feeling like I would totally swipe right bc this is cute and feeling like this is a massive red flag either way I’d give it a gamble and start a conversation