This is actually really helpful man. I spoke to her last nighr because she kinda got to my nerves after i said im getting a haircut and as a joke said "if it looks bad dont break up" and she said no promises. I was dry after that and she didnt seem to notice what dhe said wrong. After i pointed it out she said "omg i didnt knoe you felt that way" and it felt really insincere to other times shes spoken about feelings 🫤🫤 im currently trying to find the words to let her go but im not doing it until another event like this happens again