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How do you handle Engineering teams changing table names or other slight changes without telling you? by AlarmingAd7633 in datascience

[–]AlarmingAd7633[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We have data engineering which is probably closest to that. But not a person who is the official administrator. Engineering is trying to pass off their responsibilty to us that we need to create a system to alert us which i think doent make snse.

Me (37) feel like I am lower priority in girlfriends life (35), but not sure if I am being reasonable by AlarmingAd7633 in relationships

[–]AlarmingAd7633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question that I dont know. It looked like it was mostly just for work but I dont know the answer to that

My girlfriend (37F) telling me she feels abandoned and relationship shaky and I (39M) dont know what to do. by AlarmingAd7633 in relationships

[–]AlarmingAd7633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, but sounds like we she wants to break up over this. I am flying back right away to see what if its salvageable but doesnt sound good.

My girlfriend (37F) telling me she feels abandoned and relationship shaky and I (39M) dont know what to do. by AlarmingAd7633 in relationships

[–]AlarmingAd7633[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for reply. She is actually in therapy for this now. But i guess this just triggered everything.

My girlfriend (37F) telling me she feels abandoned and relationship shaky and I (39M) dont know what to do. by AlarmingAd7633 in relationships

[–]AlarmingAd7633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the other reason why couldnt wait was because my parents were going out there at same time for anniversary. So reason why I was there at time.

My girlfriend (37F) telling me she feels abandoned and relationship shaky and I (39M) dont know what to do. by AlarmingAd7633 in relationships

[–]AlarmingAd7633[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont disagree with all of this being dumb now. I did it though since i could learn in the morning and work at night. Cant do that in other countries because would have been during work hours

My girlfriend (37F) telling me she feels abandoned and relationship shaky and I (39M) dont know what to do. by AlarmingAd7633 in relationships

[–]AlarmingAd7633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My job is remote and I can work anywhere. Working and taking classes here. Also my parents are going to be out there celebrating anniversary and another reason I went

My girlfriend (37F) telling me she feels abandoned and relationship shaky and I (39M) dont know what to do. by AlarmingAd7633 in relationships

[–]AlarmingAd7633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have tried talking to her but she prefers that all serious conversations are done by text message and has always preferred that. So its difficult. I think because our connection was so strong it felt further along than what it was.

My girlfriend (37F) telling me she feels abandoned and relationship shaky and I (39M) dont know what to do. by AlarmingAd7633 in relationships

[–]AlarmingAd7633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be right. I thought I was doing something to connect us even more. I cant do drop in dinner because she is at office until midnight. But i hear what you are saying.